202: Overcoming The “Pleaser” Within – RIck Clemons

40 Plus Host Rick Clemons

If I make them happy, then I will be liked. Or even better, if I do this for them then they will do something nice for me. Sound familiar? It’s call being a pleaser and as gay men, we have tried to please everyone else, hiding our true self, and then when we come out,…

547: Making the Most of Your Queer Advantage – Andrew Gelwicks

What is the advantage of being queer? Andrew Gelwicks, explores  the answer to this question, through a collection of incisive, deeply personal conversations with LGBTQ+ trailblazers about how they leveraged the challenges and insights they had as relative outsiders to succeed in the worlds of business, tech, politics, Hollywood, sports and beyond. In his book,…

200: Give a shot to the heart in your online dating – Michael Kaye

Dating. It’s either fun or the bane of your existence. Whatever happened to the good old days of waving a magic wand and meeting Prince Charming. LMAO. Yeah, keep dreaming men. It’s time to do the work and make those relationships happen. What better way to celebrate the 200th episode of 40 Plus: Gay Men,…

546: Grateful For Being LGBTQ – Rick Clemons

For those of us in the U.S. it is Thanksgiving eve and a wonderful reminder to be grateful. Yet, how often do you remind yourself to be grateful for being LGBTQ. Before we stuff ourselves with Thanksgiving goodies, it is time to take a little breath and give thanks for being our unique selves with…

199: Leverage your milestones instead of complaining – Rick Clemons

40 Plus Host Rick Clemons

Stop whining and start celebrating your milestones of life – age, career advancements, make-ups and breakups, losing weight, gaining weight. They are all milestones that give us the goods to move our lives forward if we use those milestones to kick ourselves in the ass for good instead of moping around like a whiny old…

198: Up Your Cocksmanship – Susan Bratton

Sex, sex, sex. That’s all gay men care about. Not exactly true but even if it is, sex and sexual pleasure can get the best and worst of us as we age…or does it? Intimacy expert, Susan Bratton joins me today for a very candid, raw, sexual chat about everything sexual and how to take…