Posts by Rick Clemons
Midlife Detour
Let’s be honest! You’re feeling squeezed. Suffocated. Welcome to midlife! Or maybe success has you riding high, but the emptiness inside only exacerbates your screwed truth that appearances are only skin deep. Your midlife persona is fooling everyone but yourself. Wake up buttercup, it’s not even fooling them. People can see through to your truth.…
Read Full PostSexless Marriage, Sexless Life
Let’s be honest here. Sex, at least for most of us, is a pretty wonderful part of our life. But is it the end all be all? Maybe. yet, when it is missing from our relationship, do we put to much focus on it, or do we address other underlying issues? And even when we…
Read Full PostShit I Learned When I Got Laid Off From My Soul Sucking Job
I’d just returned from a relaxing family vacation on Cape Cod. As is the case, the reality of back to the grind hit me on my 90-minute, one-way commute to Orange County. I wasn’t going to let that take my vacation peace-of-mind out of me just yet, even though it was just par for the…
Read Full PostPermission and Guru
To often we look for everyone else to give us permission to do the thing we most want to do. Not a bad idea…SOMETIMES! Most the time, it doesn’t serve us well and then we spiral into a space of no action when we need to take action. Learn the 6 keys to giving yourself…
Read Full PostHow Divorce and coming out made me a successful entreprenuer
On the surface, if you google me, you’ll probably assume that my entrepreneurship grew out of my coming out story. True, true, true. That’s only one truth though. As you delve deeper, you might even assume once again, that my divorce caused me to become an entrepreneur. Yes, yes, and not quite yes. The real…
Read Full PostYour fears are mostly bullshit.10 ways to stop giving them CPR!
You aren’t human if you don’t experience fears. Ok, I said it and now some of you are going to tune out, leave, and not read the rest of this article. Which proves my point. Some of you are afraid to deal with the fears of what you might learn just reading this article from…
Read Full PostNeeds and Dreams
We have all needs. We all have desires. Yet, too often we allow our needs to get in the way of our dreams. In fact, too often we allow our needs to hold us hostage from going after our dreams. But what might happen if we allow our desires to fuel our dreams rather than…
Read Full PostCut through the decision fat now. 5 Ways to Trim Someday Obesity.
Admit it. You’ve said, “Someday I’ll…” Don’t lie. You know you have. We all do. Someday is a form of indecision, being non-committal, being a “maybe baby” sort of person. How’s that working for ya? And, what if someday never gets here? Yeah, you’ve heard that before. Even as I sit here typing this, at…
Read Full Post3 things you have to do to live a bullshit free life.
Wouldn’t it be great to have no challenges, no worries, and no bullshit in your life? Of course it would, but that’s not going to happen. Well it could, if you realize all of those things start with your mindset. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Change your thoughts, change your circumstances. We’ve all heard that, and sometimes…
Read Full PostStill In The Closet? Make A Bold Move With 12 Super Hilarious Ways To Come Out of The Closet
If you’re going to drop the big news this year… you might as well be clever about it! There is no right, wrong, good, bad, or perfect way to come out … only YOUR way. I belong to a speaker’s bureau for PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays). We go to universities,…
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