5 Tips For Loving The Gay Man Within

Whether your Gay or Straight, Loving Yourself From The Inside Out Makes For The Best Valentines Day! In just a few days it will be Valentines Day. Thie day to celebrate being in a relationship, brood because you’re not, or stake your claim proudly as a member of SAD (Single Awareness Day)! I have to…

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It's All About The Most

“If I hear one more self-help guru say…” You ever feel that way? I know I do! Yet as someone who works in the self-hope (you noticed I did a wordplay on ya) arena, one of the things I try to refrain from saying is, “What you need the most is…” To begin with, I…

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Free Doesn't Have To Mean Fear!

I’m frickin’ afraid of heights. Not all heights…just some. It wasn’t always this way. But then, something with my physiology shifted and now I’m a vertigo victim…but I don’t like to play the victim role, so I just find ways to overcome the tightrope of heights. I don’t purposefully hang out on the top of…

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Discover The Truth Of Confidence.

Thought…Confidence is hard to come by. New Thought…Confidence comes from living your truth! That’s all! Wrong. That’s not all and it’s not that easy, or is it? One of the things I discovered as I went through the coming out process is that the more I lived my truth, the less stressed I felt and…

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Believe Me…Self-Doubt Is All BS!

I don’t believe in self-doubt. Wait, that’s not true. I used to believe in self-doubt. Then I went to a conference where they had some Kool-aid that I drank, and it washed all the self-doubt away. Yep, it was that simple! Well not quite. First, I didn’t go to some walk on hot coals, hold…

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10 Ways To Have Killer Confidence Every Single Day

Overcoming insecurity is easier than you think. Imagine yourself sitting in a team meeting. A rally cry for the latest, innovative, revenue-generating idea rings throughout the room, and a frenzy erupts as your co-workers froth at the mouth like rabid dogs, vying for position as the next Wonder Kid on the corporate ladder. And there you sit,…

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5 Life Lessons I Learned From My Audio Book

I’ve spent the better part of the last week recording the audiobook of my soon to be released, first book, Frankly My Dear I’m Gay! Yes, 16 chapters, 706 minutes, 11.87 hours of me reading my book, and that doesn’t include the total time of 83 hours to record – stop, starts, edits, retakes. Whew…

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