Aging and losing our parents is inevitable. Losing ourselves and having no life doesn’t have to be inevitable. As much as you love your parents, don’t forget that you are part of the equation and you need to take care of you and have your life so that you can take care of them. Let’s…
You’re parents are aging, you’re settled in your gay life, and all of that gives you plenty of material to come out of the closet as a comedian…until you do. Then life throws you curve balls, and then the comedy comes to you not on stage, but through the words of your book, addressing the…
When you hit 40 you think, “It’s all down hill from here!” Sure it is if you are on a bike, riding 500 miles and you come into the home stretch of the AIDS Life Cycle ride. Yes, after turning 40, that is just one of the things that today’s guest did, that enriched his…
We all are aging, and there is nothing we can do about that. But what we can do is realize that everything works out just as it should. Serial entrepreneur, author, and podcaster Tavarus Hogans shares how his 40s have brought him to the place that he realizes he doesn’t have to first or right…
Faith. It’s something that guides us, gives us cause to take risks, and sometimes gets in the way of us being able to be who we are meant to be. Faith in ourselves, faith in the path, faith in our destiny. Especially when you realize that in order to come out of the closet, you…
Guys just don’t want to admit our changing bodies. We continue to try to do the stuff we did in our 20’s, 30’s and wonder why our changing bodies won’t follow us into those places any longer. We become stubborn, ignore stuff, and before we know it, our changing bodies are saying screw you. What…
What happens when you wake up and realize that your marriage isn’t working, but you don’t hate each other – and there is clarity. Then you realize you need to feel security, so you move back to family – and there is clarity. And finally, you begin to realize you need to spread your wings…
You done a lot of things in your life. Military, been a DJ, worked in corporate America, husband, father, and then that tickle begins. You’re being called to step out of the comfort zone and do what you are called to do – be an entrepreneur in your own right. But you have to much…
Men have been innately raised from childhood to be self-reliant. Do it yourself. Man up. Don’t ask for help. Yet, one of the biggest downfalls of men is that we often are too self-reliant and we don’t let others in and end up becoming isolated. My friend, and a man I consider a mentor, John…
