063: When Opposites No Longer Attract – Michael Testa

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There are those life moments when you realize, “This just isn’t working!” For some it’s when they realize, “I’m gay and I just gotta stop pretending to be straight.” For others, its “I’m killing myself trying to carry this team and I hate it.” Regardless of the situation, suddenly you realize the opposite of what…

048: Getting clarity in the crap of life – Mike Kim

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What happens when you wake up and realize that your marriage isn’t working, but you don’t hate each other – and there is clarity. Then you realize you need to feel security, so you move back to family – and there is clarity. And finally, you begin to realize you need to spread your wings…

044: Becoming a Self-Reliant Man & Entrepreneur – John Jantsch

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Men have been innately raised from childhood to be self-reliant. Do it yourself. Man up. Don’t ask for help. Yet, one of the biggest downfalls of men is that we often are too self-reliant and we don’t let others in and end up becoming isolated. My friend, and a man I consider a mentor, John…

Why some guys initiate divorce – Stephen Warley

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Did you know that only 30% of men ask for divorce? And when they do, it’s like they’ve committed the ultimate sin. So what happens when you’re a guy, who realizes it is just not working for you and it’s time to say “I love you but, I can’t be with you!” No infidelity, no…

Embracing and Loving Your Self-Image – Darren Main

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It all starts with that very first, “You’re a dork,” or “Be a man,’ and from then on we as men question the image of who we are in our own minds. Struggling day-in and day-out to embrace and love ourselves, often doing more damage than good to our self-image. Yet, when we begin to…

388: Building Bridges – Straight & Gay Spouses – Aideen T. Finnola

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It happens. Sometimes a straight spouse marries gay spouse and vice-versa. Is it intentional? Maybe. Is it hurtful? Can be. Regardless of the reasons this happens – which range from societal pressure, to religious beliefs, to complete confusion on sexual orientation – it’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility. No truer words are…

287: When Opposites No Longer Attract – Michael J. Testa

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It’s a story that’s been told. Yet so many still believe there’s no reason to tell this story again. That’s complete bullshit. These stories need to be told, so that everyone can hear them and realize, that there are still many marriages where opposites do not attract but people are trying to play the game,…