You do not, do not, do not, need someone elses validation to make your 40+ gay life complete. If you think you do, then that is why so many things are out of balance for you and your life. Let’s change that by stepping up to the plate and validating yourself, then anything coming from…
We all screw up. We all are too hard on ourselves and not in a good way. And, we all find it really hard to forgive ourselves. Well time to put that crap aside, and give yourself a spoonful of forgiveness and move on beyond whatever has got ya hung up. Here’s a few tips…
SHOULD, ought to be banned from the english language. Or at least from the gay man’s talk. Because when we should all over ourselves, we don’t have much fun. You should do this, you should do that, you don’t get much done if you are SHOULD-ing. Instead start doing. Here’s 10 Things Gay Guys Over…
What motivates gay men? Do all gay men only want sex? What if an open relationship can work? Can I be spiritual or religious as a gay man? Questions, questions, questions. It seems we as gay men are constantly questioning ourselves. To help me answer some of these questions is Brian Madigan of Gay Guru…
Roles, roles, roles. Everyone wants us to play some role so that it makes it easier to relate to them. We all do it, and don’t say you don’t. Yet, as gay men, we feel like we have to fit into some constrained role to make our gay lives work…or do we. We’re rolling out…
OMG. My penis no longer works, and my prostate no longer feels pleasure. My life is over! That may be the way it seems, but does having and living with prostate cancer mean, your life is over as a gay man? No! Just ask today’s guest, Kenneth A. Johnson. He’s living his life to its…
We’re coming into the home stretch of the year and it’s – HOLIDAY TIME! Don’t freak out, don’t put pressure on yourself, and please don’t try to please everyone. OK, EASIER SAID THAN DONE. However, you can have a peaceful holiday season in your gay life by following a few of these tips, without being…
You want a man, and you want him to be perfect. Really? Maybe you should be looking in the mirror. For every expectation you put on your man you better be ready to put it on yourself. It’s time to stop killing your relationship with expectations that probably are extreme or out of reach. Take…
We’re coming into the home stretch of this three part series that explores 12 manifestos that I have uncovered for gay man that truly inspire them to live and be who they are in the world – no excuses, no fears, no apologies. Here’s the final four manifestos for living life on your terms. Download…
As a gay man, have you ever struggled? Felt exhausted by trying to do the right things for your life? Felt like everything was in vain and just wanted to give up? Maybe it’s time for a Manifesto, one that inspires you each and everyday to life your life on your terms. This three part…
