226: Rick Clemons – Let’s Celebrate Pride with the Letter “P”

By Rick Clemons | 05/26/2023

It’s pride month and all this month we are waving our flags and celebrating you – gay men and the PRIDE it takes to be a gay man in our society. Today we kick off the month by look at the Letter “P” in PRIDE and the Purpose, Passion, and Path coming out and being…

224: Jon Fischer – Embracing Your Bear and Bare Self

By Rick Clemons | 05/12/2023

Our gay culture has labels for everything – Twink, Side, Daddy, Top, Otter and even Bears – Oh My. Yet, we often allow these labels to hold us back from believing we don’t fit in, and even worse that we shouldn’t love ourselves – just as we are. This candid conversation with Jon Fischer (Coach…

221: Wil Fisher – Embracing your deeper self as a gay man

By Rick Clemons | 04/21/2023

Instead of embracing our deeper selves as gay men, we often allow our “rejectionist mentality” to show up and turn that dimmer switch down on our life. But what would happen if you put on your drag face and became fierce to willfully live out loud as a gay man over 40. Guiding us with…

220: Court Vox – Sex, Intimacy, and Being Your Most Delicious Erotic Gay Self

By Rick Clemons | 04/14/2023

If you are tired of shoving your sexual curiosity into the closet, then today’s podcast is for you. No more need for shame around being a sexualy, erotic, intimate being. Those are all elements of who we are as human beings and those beautiful characteristics show up for all of us in different ways. Guiding…

217: Rick Clemons – Dating with Dignity, not Drudgery

By Rick Clemons | 03/24/2023

For most gay guys, especially once you hit your 40’s, you’re looking to date and hopefully mate. Yet, it can be so exhausting and discouraging unless you learn to date with dignity and not from a place of drudgery. Here’s some tips for getting there and loving yourself along the way. Join Our Live 40…

216: Over 40 Fitness Hacks For Gay Men – Brad Williams

By Rick Clemons | 03/17/2023

One of the hardest things to do as a gay guy over 40 is to accept that you are a gay guy over 40. Then add the battle of the bulge, the changing “what you can eat without putting on the pounds,” and suddenly life SUCKS! Here’ to guide us through some Over 40 Fitness…

213: Electrifying your way out of gay male body shame – Craig Cullinane

By Rick Clemons | 02/24/2023

Imagine, activating your life force by being 100% comfortable in your erotic self. Genuinely connecting your heart and your genitals in a way that makes you feel aligned, and alive in a way that is a work of love. Helping us embrace our sexual energy is Craig Cullinane, embodiment coach and former Director of the…

212: Don’t Dis The Disabled Guys In Your Gay Dating – Stephen Fratello

By Rick Clemons | 02/17/2023

He looks normal, acts normal, and just wants to be loved like any other gay guy. But, he has a disability and as soon as he shares that with a guy he’s interested in dating, the pull a Houdini and disappear. Why? Because they feel he’s damaged goods. Today we explore the trials and tribulations…

210: Stroking the big “E” to get along better as a gay man – Rob Volpe

By Rick Clemons | 02/03/2023

It’s really easy to get bitchy with each other in our gay male community. Whether it is on the apps, in relationships, or when we are trying to come out. But what would happen if we worked on the big “E” and I’m not talking about erections. Instead, imagine using EMPATHY to better understand each…

206: Hacking Your Way To Better Sexual Health For Gay Men– Dr. Judson Brandeis

By Rick Clemons | 01/06/2023

Whether it is better sexual health – rock hard erections, stamina, or screwing like a porn star – most gay men want great sex but do they do what they need to do for better sexual health. The answer is “NO!” Here to guide towards better habits and practices, is Dr. Judson Brandeis, Top Urologist…