You want a man, and you want him to be perfect. Really? Maybe you should be looking in the mirror. For every expectation you put on your man you better be ready to put it on yourself. It’s time to stop killing your relationship with expectations that probably are extreme or out of reach. Take…
Sex, laughter, sex, love, sex, money. That’s all it takes to make a healthy gay relationship work. If you believe that I’ve got a bottle of Clorox for you to fight COVID too. Truth is, it takes a lot of patience, understanding, and sex to make your gay relationship work. Here’s a few tips on…
This man-to-man connecting, dating, mating, and relating, is so damn hard. Or is it? It can be if the effort isn’t there, but it does take effort in all the right places. It may even take work, but when you invest in the relating and connecting the dividends can pay off for you in your…
I can’t believe I’m saying this, but we’ve made it work, last, thrive, and sometimes even survive. Yup, me and my guy – George Solis – are celebrating 20 years of being with and loving each other. Here’s some of my best tips for making this relationship stand the test of time, and gassy farts…
Relationships are wonderful and ho hum. Loving and conflicted. Easy and challenging. Then add a dose of being gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, polyamorous, or any of the other sexual orientations, gender identities or ways of being in a committed relationship, and the plot thickens. Or does it have to? Bring their own unique sense for…
Friendships. Gay Friendships. You either have them or they are completely absent from your life. This is what I hear over, and over, and over from gay men. They can’t seem to maintain friendships, and it has nothing to do with hooking up. So why is that and what do you do about it? Let’s…
If your dating expectations constantly leave you disappointed, and the only compatibility you can find is hooking up on Scruff or Grindr, it’s time for you to do some introspection and turn your dating habits around. Start connecting with compatibility, connection, and getting up-close and personal and get off the apps. Ok, keep the apps…
Dating is a pain in the ass…and not in a good way. For most gay men, the dating and pursuit of Prince Charming, is a frustrating, just give up scenario, that leaves most little energy for even a hookup. Or, you aren’t really serious about dating and say you are, but haven’t found the right…
Dating is either an adventure or a thorn in your side. Then add to the mix being LGBTQ and all that comes with dating the same sex, dating both men and women, or trying to explain the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity, and the dating world needs a whole new way to interact.…
He’s not so into sex. He must be cheating. That BJ you were so fond of, he’s no longer interested in giving it to you. He must think you are ugly. These and other thoughts run rampant in our minds when suddenly, “Sex is no longer important,” or at least not as important. Well, that…
