142.1: 20 Years of Making It Work With My Man – Rick Clemons

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I can’t believe I’m saying this, but we’ve made it work, last, thrive, and sometimes even survive. Yup, me and my guy – George Solis – are celebrating 20 years of being with and loving each other. Here’s some of my best tips for making this relationship stand the test of time, and gassy farts…

135: Why are gay friendships so hard to make? – Rick Clemons

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40 Plus Host Rick Clemons

Friendships. Gay Friendships. You either have them or they are completely absent from your life. This is what I hear over, and over, and over from gay men. They can’t seem to maintain friendships, and it has nothing to do with hooking up. So why is that and what do you do about it? Let’s…

134: Date Smarter. Sexier – Andrea LaRosa

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If your dating expectations constantly leave you disappointed, and the only compatibility you can find is hooking up on Scruff or Grindr, it’s time for you to do some introspection and turn your dating habits around. Start connecting with compatibility, connection, and getting up-close and personal and get off the apps. Ok, keep the apps…

132: Dating for the modern gay guy – Tyler Greenberg

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Dating is a pain in the ass…and not in a good way. For most gay men, the dating and pursuit of Prince Charming, is a frustrating, just give up scenario, that leaves most little energy for even a hookup. Or, you aren’t really serious about dating and say you are, but haven’t found the right…

476: Uncloseting your dating life – Tyler Greenberg

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Dating is either an adventure or a thorn in your side. Then add to the mix being LGBTQ and all that comes with dating the same sex, dating both men and women, or trying to explain the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity, and the dating world needs a whole new way to interact.…

119: How not to FREAK out when the sex dies – Rick Clemons

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40 Plus Host Rick Clemons

He’s not so into sex. He must be cheating. That BJ you were so fond of, he’s no longer interested in giving it to you. He must think you are ugly. These and other thoughts run rampant in our minds when suddenly, “Sex is no longer important,” or at least not as important. Well, that…

109: What’s Right With Having An Open Relationship – Rick Clemons

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40 Plus Host Rick Clemons

Open relationships. They seem to be the hot button trigger in gay men’s circles. You’re either all for them, completely against them, or not being honest…with yourself and your partner about how you truly feel about them. Rather than become all Judge Judy about an open relationship, why don’t you at least open up your…

105: How To Avoid Gay Death Bed – Rick Clemons

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40 Plus Host Rick Clemons

It’s inevitable. Wait that’s not true. It likely – that sounds better – that at some point in your gay relationships the bedroom will die. No not the bed, but the SEX. It happens, and rather than avoid it like a nasty STD, step into the mess before it gets messy and out of control.…