119: How not to FREAK out when the sex dies – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 05/07/2021 | 0

He’s not so into sex. He must be cheating. That BJ you were so fond of, he’s no longer interested in giving it to you. He must think you are ugly. These and other thoughts run rampant in our minds when suddenly, “Sex is no longer important,” or at least not as important. Well, that…

112: Jealousy and Insecurity – Gay Men’s Worst Enemies – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 03/19/2021 | 0

“Don’t you be looking at my man!” Sigh. Guys we don’t own the market on men looking at our men. Unless you reign that jealousy and insecurity in, you are going to be one messed up gay guy. Today we explore ways to manage your jealousy and insecurity in every aspect of your life. Hey…

109: What’s Right With Having An Open Relationship – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 02/26/2021 | 0

Open relationships. They seem to be the hot button trigger in gay men’s circles. You’re either all for them, completely against them, or not being honest…with yourself and your partner about how you truly feel about them. Rather than become all Judge Judy about an open relationship, why don’t you at least open up your…

105: How To Avoid Gay Death Bed – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 01/08/2021 | 0

It’s inevitable. Wait that’s not true. It likely – that sounds better – that at some point in your gay relationships the bedroom will die. No not the bed, but the SEX. It happens, and rather than avoid it like a nasty STD, step into the mess before it gets messy and out of control.…

068: Successfully Living In A Blended Family – Joel W. Hawbaker

By Rick Clemons | 04/10/2020 | 0

When it comes to divorce, it’s never easy, and it’s often chaotic. Yet, when you realize that it is not your job to get your ex-spouse to do what you want, and it is your job to find ways to make it work, then success happens…even if it is a challenge. Learning from his own…

062: Navigating The Possibility Of An Open Relationship – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 02/28/2020 | 0

Relationships are not easy…right? Yet, sometimes relationships cause one or both partners to wander into the land of infidelity or lackluster connectedness. On the other hand, some relationships wander into the realm of an open relationship. All of these scenarios can lead to insanity, or a better outcome, when you take the time to breathe,…

058: Creating Killer Relationships With Your Partner – Chuck Chapman

By Rick Clemons | 01/31/2020 | 0

Relationships are tough. Relationships are wonderful. Either way, as men we tend to get confused about what to do when the relationships get tough. We either let our egos screw everything up, clam up, or blow up, or give up. That’s not the best formula…just ask Chuck Chapman…relationship therapist, coach and all around nice guy.…

050: Facing your Daddy issues head on – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 12/20/2019 | 0

I’ve typically had an on again, off again relationship with my Father. It’s not easy and sometimes I feel like a real asshole because I don’t’ have a great relationship with him. Then I realized, it takes two to show up in the arena to play the Father/Son game and I can only be responsible…

319: 800 Bold Days of Me – Michael Barber

By Rick Clemons | 10/10/2018 | 0

Coming Out. It’s scary. Electrifying. Confusing. Life changing. It’s about thriving vs. hiding. Taking a stand to live rather than die. But most of all it’s about being you, 100% you, no matter what the odds, the snide remarks, the acceptance or lack thereof. Because coming out is just the act. Living your truth is…

314: Getting To Hell Yes – Alexandra Jamieson and Bob Gower

By Rick Clemons | 09/21/2018 | 0

Living life on your terms, making your bold moves, not settling for the status quo, all require one thing…a strong Hell Yes to give yourself, or others permission to make shit happen. But how do you get there? What do you do to overcome the fears and anxieties? How do you navigate those deep, deep…