Stage 2 - Embrace Your Truth
Get comfortable. Get Confident.

You're gay or bisexual, and ready get more comfortable
with that truth - those feelings.

You've had a sexuality reality check.

Being gay or bisexual is feeling right, but you don’t want people to know - not yet!

On the other hand, you want to be more out in certain places, with certain people.

It's all one big conflict and you're tired of hanging around in "coming out" limbo.

You’re thinking...

“It’s not just sex. I really like being with a man."


“Living a double life sucks. I need to get real."


“Can I make this work without losing everything?”

You’re feeling...

Excited, curious and more at ease.


Exhausted and trapped and ready for a change.


Optimistic and hopeful about what's next.

You’re find yourself...

Hungry for a real date, rather than a hook-up.


Ready to live honestly. Less afraid of the fallout.


Starting to see a good life outside of the closet.

We're going to work on getting you comfortable, confident, and loving yourself!

All we are going to focus on is you being comfortable as a gay or bisexual man.

Exploring how you see yourself in your potential new life.

We rework your stories about what this means - creating new truths.

The focus is on the courage and commitment it takes to live your truth daily.

Together we craft, "just right actions" to take to make you feel most comfortable.

The work we do here is about alignment, options, and possibilities.

It's time to dump your excuses, face your fears, and live your unapologetic life.

Start being more you.
Living your truth,
Little by little each day!

"Coming Out" Coaching How It Works

I'm a straight-forward, uncomplicated guy, and here's how I see being your coach.

I want you to be with me, because you believe it's going to work for you.

It's an investment in time and money, and worthwhile if you go full in.

This won't work unless you are ready to dive in 100%.

When you commit I commit. That's my promise to you.

I'm here to listen, provide feedback, help you see the things you're not seeing, and guide you to your the answers that fit for you.

Once we have our initial discovery session, and if we determine it's a "Hell Yes," we will pick up the pace and get going. Here's what you can expect:


  • Weekly sessions via Zoom, 1 hour each, for 3 - 6 months


  • Initial "strategy session" to "find the gaps," and explore the possibilities


  • Weekly actionable tasks that drive you forward in a confident way


  • Access to my signature 6-step No Fears, No Excuses, No Apologies system for coming out


  • Me, available to you via email, text, or Voxer




What Clients Have To Say...

Jeff H.

I felt like my life was on cruise control. Moving, but no real fulfilling direction. I was a little fearful about looking deep into my life to see why I was stuck, but the thought of continuing to be stuck was worse. Rick’s provided me with powerful insights and tools to rid myself of my victim mentality. I’m extremely excited that things are looking pretty damn good!

Jacob M.

Throughout the 18 months I have worked with Rick, I have developed a genuine, strong, overwhelming love for myself. I no longer have an inner fight going on. I am aware of my thoughts, my actions, my choices, and the energy I put into the world. Now I am a MAN, a GAY man, who can stand up and love himself regardless of who is in the room.

Randy B.

Rick is extremely supportive, full of love and helps you tackle and overcome obstacles in an honest and straightforward fashion. Sometimes we need someone on the outside to guide us through the process and keep us on track to reach our goals. I always feel comfortable talking with Rick, and can tell he is truly listening, cares about what I am saying and wants me to succeed

Brain G.

When I first contacted Rick to begin coaching sessions, I was going through the greatest crisis of my entire life… I had finally come to terms with the fact that I am gay. Rick was a tremendous support for me at that time, thoughtfully walking me through the process of understanding myself and eventually coming out to my family and friends.
Rick’s approach to coaching made all the difference. He never directed me to do anything. He never gave me a recipe for how to live my life. He simply asked questions that allowed me to make my own decisions and to chart my own path.
It’s been two years since I began work with Rick and I have to say, my life is completely transformed. My crisis is in the past and I have reached a place where I am profoundly happy. My relationships with my family and friends are wonderful. I am at peace with myself and I feel like I have a new direction in my life.
Whatever your issues: whether they be coming out, or transitioning to a new phase of life, I highly recommend Rick and his tremendous life coaching abilities.

Your Investment

Coaching Packages Range From

$800 - $1500 a month

Include weekly 30 - 60 minute sessions

Unlimited support between sessions


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