Stage 3 - Escape into living.
Your plan. Your way. Let's go!

You're ready to come out, and want to that step out with confidence.
Let's build a no fears, no excuses, no apologies plan.

You’re ready.

You've built the courage and confidence to move forward.

Now you just need that final action plan to make it happen.

A plan that works for you, on your terms.

You’re thinking...

“It's time to be me. Let's make it happen!"


“This might be painful, but worth it!"


"Being gay is just part of who I am - full stop!

You’re feeling...

Alive, focused, little nervous but inspired.


Emotional but you know this is your path.


Inspired, regardless of what others think.

You find yourself...

Open about your sexuality - no guilt or shame.


Solid in your values and beliefs about yourself.


Experiencing a sense of calm you've never felt.

Living your truth as a gay or bisexual man is your reality.

Now is the time to get into action, step into your power, and own the truth of who you are as a gay or bisexual guy.

We create a solid coming out plan that works for you.

You define the focus - work, family, friends, spiritually - it all gets worked into the mix.

It's about you feeling empowered and unapologetic, for the rest of your life!

Living your gay or bisexual life on your terms, now one else's.

Stage 3 - Escape into living.
Your plan. Your way. Let's go!

"Coming Out" Coaching How It Works

I'm a straight-forward, uncomplicated guy, and here's how I see being your coach.

I want you to be with me, because you believe it's going to work for you.

It's an investment in time and money, and worthwhile if you go full in.

This won't work unless you are ready to dive in 100%.

When you commit I commit. That's my promise to you.

I'm here to listen, provide feedback, help you see the things you're not seeing, and guide you to your the answers that fit for you.

Once we have our initial discovery session, and if we determine it's a "Hell Yes," we will pick up the pace and get going. Here's what you can expect:


  • Weekly sessions via Zoom, 1 hour each, for 3 - 6 months


  • Initial "strategy session" to "find the gaps," and explore the possibilities


  • Weekly actionable tasks that drive you forward in a confident way


  • Access to my signature 6-step No Fears, No Excuses, No Apologies system for coming out


  • Me, available to you via email, text, or Voxer




What clients are saying...

Jeff H.

I felt like my life was on cruise control. Moving, but no real fulfilling direction. I was a little fearful about looking deep into my life to see why I was stuck, but the thought of continuing to be stuck was worse. Rick’s provided me with powerful insights and tools to rid myself of my victim mentality. I’m extremely excited that things are looking pretty damn good!

Jacob M.

Throughout the 18 months I have worked with Rick, I have developed a genuine, strong, overwhelming love for myself. I no longer have an inner fight going on. I am aware of my thoughts, my actions, my choices, and the energy I put into the world. Now I am a MAN, a GAY man, who can stand up and love himself regardless of who is in the room.

Randy B.

Rick is extremely supportive, full of love and helps you tackle and overcome obstacles in an honest and straightforward fashion. Sometimes we need someone on the outside to guide us through the process and keep us on track to reach our goals. I always feel comfortable talking with Rick, and can tell he is truly listening, cares about what I am saying and wants me to succeed

Brain G.

When I first contacted Rick to begin coaching sessions, I was going through the greatest crisis of my entire life… I had finally come to terms with the fact that I am gay. Rick was a tremendous support for me at that time, thoughtfully walking me through the process of understanding myself and eventually coming out to my family and friends.
Rick’s approach to coaching made all the difference. He never directed me to do anything. He never gave me a recipe for how to live my life. He simply asked questions that allowed me to make my own decisions and to chart my own path.
It’s been two years since I began work with Rick and I have to say, my life is completely transformed. My crisis is in the past and I have reached a place where I am profoundly happy. My relationships with my family and friends are wonderful. I am at peace with myself and I feel like I have a new direction in my life.
Whatever your issues: whether they be coming out, or transitioning to a new phase of life, I highly recommend Rick and his tremendous life coaching abilities.

Your Investment

Coaching Packages Range From

$800 - $1500 a month

Include weekly 30 - 60 minute sessions

Unlimited support between sessions


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