40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Talking about the things us gay guys
need to be talking about but aren't.

Be the gay man you are.
No excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Let's get real. Dump the gay stereotypes that society has thrown on us. Quit following the rules of what being a "gay man" is supposed to be. It's time for you to own up, man up, and show up the way that you're meant to...your way!

If you feel vulnerable, be vulnerable. Tired of carry pretending you've got it all figured out, then stop. Want more than the corner office prestige? Tired of the constant hooking up or lack of sex? Wishing you had a relationship, but never getting there? Then do something about it that is more than fabulous lip service.

It's time for you to make your bold move, stop sugar coating your bullshit, ask for help, take some scary risks, go ahead and wallow in the unknown, and start living life on your terms.

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. The podcast where being naked with ourselves get's us off in life, not just in the moment.


Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk, and yes, every once in awhile we will even talk about that junk between your legs. From sex and relationships, to fears and vulnerabilities, career challenges to body image, it's a no holds barred approach guaranteed to get you uncomfortable in your gay self, so you can strip away the toxic, stereotypical rules we gay guys think we're supposed by in the world.

It's a no excuses, no fears, no apologies approach to for being a gay guy over 40!

185: Lessons Learned After Another Trip Around The Sun – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Aug 12, 2022 |

It WAS my birthday, and it WAS great. That’s why today, I want to share 10 things with you gay-man-to-gay-man, that I feel are some of the greatest lessons I’ve learned from my 59 years on this planet. They’ve changed my life, made me a better man, and continue to kick my ass when I…

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184: Helping Gay Men Feel Seen and Heard – Adam Lippin

By Rick Clemons | Aug 5, 2022 |

Loneliness is an epidemic that is growing by the day. Gay or straight it is causing huge amounts of mental health issues. For gay men, the isolation and lack of connection often compounds our isolation. You just want to cry, “Hear Me!” That’s exactly what Adam Lippin, founder of HearMe.App has created. A way for…

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183: Navigating Your Way To Your Passion and Purpose – Scott Gatz

By Rick Clemons | Jul 29, 2022 |

One of the things many gay men struggle with the most is finding their passion and purpose. Landing in that career that truly lights them up. But what if it was as easy as getting clear, taking the first step, being unafraid of change, and then taking the leap? It can be that simple, even…

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182: Stop being petrified to show up as a gay man – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Jul 22, 2022 |

Whether it’s showing up on a gay vacation, hitting the bars on the weekend, or walking into work, it can be petrifying to show up in your world as a gay man. So how do you not let being petrified hold you back from living your best gay life? Take a listen and find the…

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181: The Joy of Navigating An Ever Changing Career Ride – Michael Novin

By Rick Clemons | Jul 15, 2022 |

I’m going to be an actor. No wait, I’m going to be a Broadway star. Nope, I’m going to be a financial planner. Ay yes, I’m going to run a talent agency and be a coach. Sounds like this guy doesn’t know what he’s doing…but he does. Michael Novin has leaned into his life fully,…

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Buck Angel

Transgender Activist

Rick asked me to be on his podcast. I listened to some before I made the commitment. He is such the kind of person I surround myself with. These podcasts are very important for so many reasons but the most is that they will teach you about humanity.


Jess Pettit

Author of Good Enough Now

Rick provides a space for real conversation, connection, and a sense of calm that allows for relationships and change to develop and take hold towards something better together.

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Grant Baldwin

Founder, TheSpeakerLab.com

Rick is a giant teddy bear. He may look rough and tough, but he’s extremely compassionate, genuine and has a huge desire to help people make bold moves in their lives.

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