40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Talking about the things us gay guys
need to be talking about but aren't.

Be the gay man you are.
No excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Let's get real. Dump the gay stereotypes that society has thrown on us. Quit following the rules of what being a "gay man" is supposed to be. It's time for you to own up, man up, and show up the way that you're meant to...your way!

If you feel vulnerable, be vulnerable. Tired of carry pretending you've got it all figured out, then stop. Want more than the corner office prestige? Tired of the constant hooking up or lack of sex? Wishing you had a relationship, but never getting there? Then do something about it that is more than fabulous lip service.

It's time for you to make your bold move, stop sugar coating your bullshit, ask for help, take some scary risks, go ahead and wallow in the unknown, and start living life on your terms.

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. The podcast where being naked with ourselves get's us off in life, not just in the moment.


Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk, and yes, every once in awhile we will even talk about that junk between your legs. From sex and relationships, to fears and vulnerabilities, career challenges to body image, it's a no holds barred approach guaranteed to get you uncomfortable in your gay self, so you can strip away the toxic, stereotypical rules we gay guys think we're supposed by in the world.

It's a no excuses, no fears, no apologies approach to for being a gay guy over 40!

172: Moving Past Being “Friendzoned” – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | May 13, 2022 |

We’ve all been there and you are NOT alone. Friendzoned! It isn’t fun and it can truly screw with your confidence and cause you to lose hope in ever finding a man and being in a relationship. But fear not gay men, there is life after being Friendzoned and here’s how to move forward. Join…

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171: Are You Making Room For A Man In Your Life? – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | May 6, 2022 |

You want a man, you feel like you need a man (even though you don’t) yet, are you making room for a man in your life? Once we hit our 40+ lives as gay men, we may not be making room for a man in our life, and that harsh truth is what we are…

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170: Lessons Learned From The Frugal Gay – Tom Brickman

By Rick Clemons | Apr 29, 2022 |

What do you do when you just can’t find the way to make money doing your passion? You just keep doing it on the side until you find the way. Is it difficult? Challenging? Worth it? Yes, yes, and yes. Tom Brickman – known as The Frugal Gay – shares his insights on how to…

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169: The Art Of Self-Forgiveness – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Apr 22, 2022 |

We all screw up. We all are too hard on ourselves and not in a good way. And, we all find it really hard to forgive ourselves. Well time to put that crap aside, and give yourself a spoonful of forgiveness and move on beyond whatever has got ya hung up. Here’s a few tips…

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168: Stop the “Should-ing” and Starting Doing These 10 Things As A Gay Guy – RIck Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Apr 15, 2022 |

SHOULD, ought to be banned from the english language. Or at least from the gay man’s talk. Because when we should all over ourselves, we don’t have much fun. You should do this, you should do that, you don’t get much done if you are SHOULD-ing. Instead start doing. Here’s 10 Things Gay Guys Over…

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Buck Angel

Transgender Activist

Rick asked me to be on his podcast. I listened to some before I made the commitment. He is such the kind of person I surround myself with. These podcasts are very important for so many reasons but the most is that they will teach you about humanity.


Jess Pettit

Author of Good Enough Now

Rick provides a space for real conversation, connection, and a sense of calm that allows for relationships and change to develop and take hold towards something better together.

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Grant Baldwin

Founder, TheSpeakerLab.com

Rick is a giant teddy bear. He may look rough and tough, but he’s extremely compassionate, genuine and has a huge desire to help people make bold moves in their lives.

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