40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Talking about the things us gay guys
need to be talking about but aren't.

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Be the gay man you are.
No excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Let's get real. Dump the gay stereotypes that society has thrown on us. Quit following the rules of what being a "gay man" is supposed to be. It's time for you to own up, man up, and show up the way that you're meant to...your way!

If you feel vulnerable, be vulnerable. Tired of carry pretending you've got it all figured out, then stop. Want more than the corner office prestige? Tired of the constant hooking up or lack of sex? Wishing you had a relationship, but never getting there? Then do something about it that is more than fabulous lip service.

It's time for you to make your bold move, stop sugar coating your bullshit, ask for help, take some scary risks, go ahead and wallow in the unknown, and start living life on your terms.

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. The podcast where being naked with ourselves get's us off in life, not just in the moment.


Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk, and yes, every once in awhile we will even talk about that junk between your legs. From sex and relationships, to fears and vulnerabilities, career challenges to body image, it's a no holds barred approach guaranteed to get you uncomfortable in your gay self, so you can strip away the toxic, stereotypical rules we gay guys think we're supposed by in the world.

It's a no excuses, no fears, no apologies approach to for being a gay guy over 40!

227: Rick Clemons – Celebrating Pride with the Letter “R”

By Rick Clemons | Jun 2, 2023 |

Continuing our PRIDE Month Celebration, we take the Letter “R” in pride and unravel the significance of being resilient, remarkable, and reconnecting the the heart and soul of who we are as gay men. Happy Pride gents! Join Our Live 40 Plus Gay Men, Gay Talk Chats The third Monday of each month at 5:00…

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226: Rick Clemons – Let’s Celebrate Pride with the Letter “P”

By Rick Clemons | May 26, 2023 |

It’s pride month and all this month we are waving our flags and celebrating you – gay men and the PRIDE it takes to be a gay man in our society. Today we kick off the month by look at the Letter “P” in PRIDE and the Purpose, Passion, and Path coming out and being…

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225: Harker Jones – To Find Your Passion – Just Do Something!

By Rick Clemons | May 19, 2023 |

So many gay men struggle to find their passion, purpose, and to be happy. But, why? It’s actually quite simple. They do nothing. They try a little, don’t get the quick fix, and then give up. Harker Jones has never given up, but that’s not the only reason he has constantly lived in his passion.…

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224: Jon Fischer – Embracing Your Bear and Bare Self

By Rick Clemons | May 12, 2023 |

Our gay culture has labels for everything – Twink, Side, Daddy, Top, Otter and even Bears – Oh My. Yet, we often allow these labels to hold us back from believing we don’t fit in, and even worse that we shouldn’t love ourselves – just as we are. This candid conversation with Jon Fischer (Coach…

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223: Rick Clemons – Time To Stop Rejecting Our Gay Brothers

By Rick Clemons | May 5, 2023 |

If the polarization in America, and across the globe has taught us anything, it is empathy and understanding goes along way. Yet, we don’t seem to practice this very well in our gay culture. It’s time guys to give each other a break and quit being so judgemental. Accept each other as we are and…

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Buck Angel

Transgender Activist

Rick asked me to be on his podcast. I listened to some before I made the commitment. He is such the kind of person I surround myself with. These podcasts are very important for so many reasons but the most is that they will teach you about humanity.


Jess Pettit

Author of Good Enough Now

Rick provides a space for real conversation, connection, and a sense of calm that allows for relationships and change to develop and take hold towards something better together.

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Grant Baldwin

Founder, TheSpeakerLab.com

Rick is a giant teddy bear. He may look rough and tough, but he’s extremely compassionate, genuine and has a huge desire to help people make bold moves in their lives.

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