40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Talking about the things us gay guys
need to be talking about but aren't.

Be the gay man you are.
No excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Let's get real. Dump the gay stereotypes that society has thrown on us. Quit following the rules of what being a "gay man" is supposed to be. It's time for you to own up, man up, and show up the way that you're meant to...your way!

If you feel vulnerable, be vulnerable. Tired of carry pretending you've got it all figured out, then stop. Want more than the corner office prestige? Tired of the constant hooking up or lack of sex? Wishing you had a relationship, but never getting there? Then do something about it that is more than fabulous lip service.

It's time for you to make your bold move, stop sugar coating your bullshit, ask for help, take some scary risks, go ahead and wallow in the unknown, and start living life on your terms.

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. The podcast where being naked with ourselves get's us off in life, not just in the moment.


Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk, and yes, every once in awhile we will even talk about that junk between your legs. From sex and relationships, to fears and vulnerabilities, career challenges to body image, it's a no holds barred approach guaranteed to get you uncomfortable in your gay self, so you can strip away the toxic, stereotypical rules we gay guys think we're supposed by in the world.

It's a no excuses, no fears, no apologies approach to for being a gay guy over 40!

119: How not to FREAK out when the sex dies – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | May 7, 2021 |

He’s not so into sex. He must be cheating. That BJ you were so fond of, he’s no longer interested in giving it to you. He must think you are ugly. These and other thoughts run rampant in our minds when suddenly, “Sex is no longer important,” or at least not as important. Well, that…

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118: Aging as a Transman – Sex and all that jazz – Buck Angel!

By Rick Clemons | Apr 30, 2021 |

He’s in his late 50’s. He’s a trailblazer. He’s done porn, and he’s a man. A transman, and he’s got something to say about being a man of a certain age in the LGBTQ community. Never one to walk away from a fight or a belief system, Buck Angel is coming out swinging as a…

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117: The Ultimate Circle Jerk – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Apr 23, 2021 |

Who doesn’t like an awesome circle jerk? Ok, maybe not everyone, but most gay men do, but sometimes they love a circle jerk so much they end up jerking themselves into oblivion. Is that you? Are you jerking yourself off for all the wrong reasons? If so, this podcast is for you and how you…

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116: To Be Out or Not To Be Out In Corporate Life – Jeff Nally

By Rick Clemons | Apr 16, 2021 |

Are you out? Really out? Let’s rephrase that question. Are you out in your work life, and really out in a way that represents you, the whole you that you want to bring to work? If not, why not? As a guy in your 40+ life you have lot to bring to the table, and…

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115: Let Go Of Your Ex or Shut The F#CK Up – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Apr 9, 2021 |

Break ups are inevitable. Don’t believe it ? Watch any episode or Queer as Folk, The “L”Word, or Pose and the truth will show you it’s real. Of course, what would be a smashing break up without the almighty “pining and swooning after your Ex?” Right? Well stop that crap and get over them already.…

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Buck Angel

Transgender Activist

Rick asked me to be on his podcast. I listened to some before I made the commitment. He is such the kind of person I surround myself with. These podcasts are very important for so many reasons but the most is that they will teach you about humanity.


Jess Pettit

Author of Good Enough Now

Rick provides a space for real conversation, connection, and a sense of calm that allows for relationships and change to develop and take hold towards something better together.

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Grant Baldwin

Founder, TheSpeakerLab.com

Rick is a giant teddy bear. He may look rough and tough, but he’s extremely compassionate, genuine and has a huge desire to help people make bold moves in their lives.

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