40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Talking about the things us gay guys
need to be talking about but aren't.

Be the gay man you are.
No excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Let's get real. Dump the gay stereotypes that society has thrown on us. Quit following the rules of what being a "gay man" is supposed to be. It's time for you to own up, man up, and show up the way that you're meant to...your way!

If you feel vulnerable, be vulnerable. Tired of carry pretending you've got it all figured out, then stop. Want more than the corner office prestige? Tired of the constant hooking up or lack of sex? Wishing you had a relationship, but never getting there? Then do something about it that is more than fabulous lip service.

It's time for you to make your bold move, stop sugar coating your bullshit, ask for help, take some scary risks, go ahead and wallow in the unknown, and start living life on your terms.

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. The podcast where being naked with ourselves get's us off in life, not just in the moment.


Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk, and yes, every once in awhile we will even talk about that junk between your legs. From sex and relationships, to fears and vulnerabilities, career challenges to body image, it's a no holds barred approach guaranteed to get you uncomfortable in your gay self, so you can strip away the toxic, stereotypical rules we gay guys think we're supposed by in the world.

It's a no excuses, no fears, no apologies approach to for being a gay guy over 40!

052: Taking the walk of faith to leave your faith – Brian Gilbert

By Rick Clemons | Dec 27, 2019 | Comments Off on 052: Taking the walk of faith to leave your faith – Brian Gilbert

Faith. It’s something that guides us, gives us cause to take risks, and sometimes gets in the way of us being able to be who we are meant to be. Faith in ourselves, faith in the path, faith in our destiny. Especially when you realize that in order to come out of the closet, you…

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051: 12 Holiday Gifts Men Should Give Themselves – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Dec 24, 2019 | Comments Off on 051: 12 Holiday Gifts Men Should Give Themselves – Rick Clemons

It’s Christmas Eve, or right in the middle of Hanukkah, but regardless of where you are or holiday you celebrate, how about giving yourself some really good, non-materialistic holiday gifts this holiday season. The kind of gifts that truly improve your life and bring you peace. No more feeling the blues about these holiday gifts,…

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050: Facing your Daddy issues head on – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Dec 20, 2019 | Comments Off on 050: Facing your Daddy issues head on – Rick Clemons

I’ve typically had an on again, off again relationship with my Father. It’s not easy and sometimes I feel like a real asshole because I don’t’ have a great relationship with him. Then I realized, it takes two to show up in the arena to play the Father/Son game and I can only be responsible…

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049: Accepting Our Changing Bodies – Elliott Kronenfeld

By Rick Clemons | Dec 17, 2019 | Comments Off on 049: Accepting Our Changing Bodies – Elliott Kronenfeld

Guys just don’t want to admit our changing bodies. We continue to try to do the stuff we did in our 20’s, 30’s and wonder why our changing bodies won’t follow us into those places any longer. We become stubborn, ignore stuff, and before we know it, our changing bodies are saying screw you. What…

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048: Getting clarity in the crap of life – Mike Kim

By Rick Clemons | Dec 13, 2019 | Comments Off on 048: Getting clarity in the crap of life – Mike Kim

What happens when you wake up and realize that your marriage isn’t working, but you don’t hate each other – and there is clarity. Then you realize you need to feel security, so you move back to family – and there is clarity. And finally, you begin to realize you need to spread your wings…

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Buck Angel

Transgender Activist

Rick asked me to be on his podcast. I listened to some before I made the commitment. He is such the kind of person I surround myself with. These podcasts are very important for so many reasons but the most is that they will teach you about humanity.


Jess Pettit

Author of Good Enough Now

Rick provides a space for real conversation, connection, and a sense of calm that allows for relationships and change to develop and take hold towards something better together.

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Grant Baldwin

Founder, TheSpeakerLab.com

Rick is a giant teddy bear. He may look rough and tough, but he’s extremely compassionate, genuine and has a huge desire to help people make bold moves in their lives.

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