40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Talking about the things us gay guys
need to be talking about but aren't.

Be the gay man you are.
No excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Let's get real. Dump the gay stereotypes that society has thrown on us. Quit following the rules of what being a "gay man" is supposed to be. It's time for you to own up, man up, and show up the way that you're meant to...your way!

If you feel vulnerable, be vulnerable. Tired of carry pretending you've got it all figured out, then stop. Want more than the corner office prestige? Tired of the constant hooking up or lack of sex? Wishing you had a relationship, but never getting there? Then do something about it that is more than fabulous lip service.

It's time for you to make your bold move, stop sugar coating your bullshit, ask for help, take some scary risks, go ahead and wallow in the unknown, and start living life on your terms.

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. The podcast where being naked with ourselves get's us off in life, not just in the moment.


Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk, and yes, every once in awhile we will even talk about that junk between your legs. From sex and relationships, to fears and vulnerabilities, career challenges to body image, it's a no holds barred approach guaranteed to get you uncomfortable in your gay self, so you can strip away the toxic, stereotypical rules we gay guys think we're supposed by in the world.

It's a no excuses, no fears, no apologies approach to for being a gay guy over 40!

Let’s get real about happiness – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Oct 18, 2019 | Comments Off on Let’s get real about happiness – Rick Clemons

I’m so happy. Everything is great. Nothing could be better. Really? Or, are you just blowing happiness smoke up your ass just to make yourself feel better and to make other believe that your life is filled with happiness, happiness, happiness.Don’t get me wrong, if you’re happy, you’re happy. BRAVO. But, most men, in fact,…

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Why some guys initiate divorce – Stephen Warley

By Rick Clemons | Oct 15, 2019 | Comments Off on Why some guys initiate divorce – Stephen Warley

Did you know that only 30% of men ask for divorce? And when they do, it’s like they’ve committed the ultimate sin. So what happens when you’re a guy, who realizes it is just not working for you and it’s time to say “I love you but, I can’t be with you!” No infidelity, no…

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Why Every Guy Has A Coming Out Journey – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Oct 11, 2019 | Comments Off on Why Every Guy Has A Coming Out Journey – Rick Clemons

Hey guys. Hate to say it but you need to come out of the closet. No, I’m not accusing you of being gay or bi-. Don’t make that assumption. Nor am I saying that if you are gay or bi- that you aren’t already out of the closet, even though some of you might still…

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Why One Thing Changes Everything – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Oct 8, 2019 | Comments Off on Why One Thing Changes Everything – Rick Clemons

Focus. Focus. Focus. You ever heard that or been told that? Of course you have. But sometimes us guys just don’t want to listen to that advice. Yet, when we focus, especially on the ONE THING that we most desire, a majority of the time we get what we desire. Here’s my take and some…

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Embracing and Loving Your Self-Image – Darren Main

By Rick Clemons | Oct 4, 2019 | Comments Off on Embracing and Loving Your Self-Image – Darren Main

It all starts with that very first, “You’re a dork,” or “Be a man,’ and from then on we as men question the image of who we are in our own minds. Struggling day-in and day-out to embrace and love ourselves, often doing more damage than good to our self-image. Yet, when we begin to…

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Buck Angel

Transgender Activist

Rick asked me to be on his podcast. I listened to some before I made the commitment. He is such the kind of person I surround myself with. These podcasts are very important for so many reasons but the most is that they will teach you about humanity.


Jess Pettit

Author of Good Enough Now

Rick provides a space for real conversation, connection, and a sense of calm that allows for relationships and change to develop and take hold towards something better together.

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Grant Baldwin

Founder, TheSpeakerLab.com

Rick is a giant teddy bear. He may look rough and tough, but he’s extremely compassionate, genuine and has a huge desire to help people make bold moves in their lives.

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