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40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Talking about the things us gay guys
need to be talking about but aren't.


Be the gay man you are.
No excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Let's get real. Dump the gay stereotypes that society has thrown on us. Quit following the rules of what being a "gay man" is supposed to be. It's time for you to own up, man up, and show up the way that you're meant to...your way!

If you feel vulnerable, be vulnerable. Tired of carry pretending you've got it all figured out, then stop. Want more than the corner office prestige? Tired of the constant hooking up or lack of sex? Wishing you had a relationship, but never getting there? Then do something about it that is more than fabulous lip service.

It's time for you to make your bold move, stop sugar coating your bullshit, ask for help, take some scary risks, go ahead and wallow in the unknown, and start living life on your terms.

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. The podcast where being naked with ourselves get's us off in life, not just in the moment.


Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk, and yes, every once in awhile we will even talk about that junk between your legs. From sex and relationships, to fears and vulnerabilities, career challenges to body image, it's a no holds barred approach guaranteed to get you uncomfortable in your gay self, so you can strip away the toxic, stereotypical rules we gay guys think we're supposed by in the world.

It's a no excuses, no fears, no apologies approach to for being a gay guy over 40!

095 – Embracing a “Why Not” Mindset – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Oct 16, 2020 |
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094: Being Better Beings – Michelle Zellner

By Rick Clemons | Oct 9, 2020 |

How often do you find yourself wishing you were better? Better at your job, better at your relationships, better at taking care of yourself, just simply better, better, better. It’s a daily occurrence for me. Yet, I’ve also learned that the pursuit of better doesn’t have to be drudgery, especially when it comes to taking…

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093: Stepping Into and Letting Go of Love – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Oct 2, 2020 |

Not all divorces, job layoffs, or health scares require walking away in disgust from something that we love. In fact, really healthy situations lead us towards honoring the love for something or someone and graciously letting to go to make space for the thing that we love more. Today we explore how to do that without…

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092: Tap Into The Power of Your Younger Self, Even In a Pandemic – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Sep 25, 2020 |

Life sucks right now in so many ways, but are you really going to let it keep you stuck? In a rut? Causing you to give up? Maybe what you should do is ask your younger self to take the lead for awhile. Today we explore the possibilities that exist, even in pandemics, political strife,…

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091: How your hard “No’s” are ruining your life – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Sep 18, 2020 |

“NO!” We started learning that word form a very young age. Before we knew it, our life was filled with no, no, no’s! So are we surprised that we have a hard time getting to “YES” in our lives? Then add to the fact that when we seek partners, jobs, the perfect place to live,…

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Buck Angel

Transgender Activist

Rick asked me to be on his podcast. I listened to some before I made the commitment. He is such the kind of person I surround myself with. These podcasts are very important for so many reasons but the most is that they will teach you about humanity.


Jess Pettit

Author of Good Enough Now

Rick provides a space for real conversation, connection, and a sense of calm that allows for relationships and change to develop and take hold towards something better together.

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Grant Baldwin


Rick is a giant teddy bear. He may look rough and tough, but he’s extremely compassionate, genuine and has a huge desire to help people make bold moves in their lives.

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