40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Talking about the things us gay guys
need to be talking about but aren't.

Be the gay man you are.
No excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Let's get real. Dump the gay stereotypes that society has thrown on us. Quit following the rules of what being a "gay man" is supposed to be. It's time for you to own up, man up, and show up the way that you're meant to...your way!

If you feel vulnerable, be vulnerable. Tired of carry pretending you've got it all figured out, then stop. Want more than the corner office prestige? Tired of the constant hooking up or lack of sex? Wishing you had a relationship, but never getting there? Then do something about it that is more than fabulous lip service.

It's time for you to make your bold move, stop sugar coating your bullshit, ask for help, take some scary risks, go ahead and wallow in the unknown, and start living life on your terms.

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. The podcast where being naked with ourselves get's us off in life, not just in the moment.


Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk, and yes, every once in awhile we will even talk about that junk between your legs. From sex and relationships, to fears and vulnerabilities, career challenges to body image, it's a no holds barred approach guaranteed to get you uncomfortable in your gay self, so you can strip away the toxic, stereotypical rules we gay guys think we're supposed by in the world.

It's a no excuses, no fears, no apologies approach to for being a gay guy over 40!

189: Stop shaming Monogamy, Open Relationships, and Polyamory – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Sep 9, 2022 |

There’s a lot of shaming going on around how people do their most intimate relationship(s). You get shame for wanting monogamy. Shade gets thrown if you are in an open or polyamorous relationship. Shame, shame, shame for how you choose to live your life. Well it’s nobody’s business and here’s some tips on dumping the…

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188: Embracing A Holistic Approach To HIV & Monkeypox – Jill Baker

By Rick Clemons | Sep 2, 2022 |

First it was HIV and AIDS, now Monkeypox. And the LGBTQ+ community, and more specifically gay men are being called out as the source of these issues. Really? Are we truly going to do this again? Not if we take the right stands and the right health approaches to addressing these issues. Jill Baker, FNP-C…

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187: Staying Sane As Our LGBTQ Lives Are The Targets Again– Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Aug 26, 2022 |

Now we’re being blamed for Monkeypox, and of course, there’s threats that Gay Marriage could be overruled just like Roe vs. Wade. So how do you stay positive, and vigilant as a gay man? Here’s some ideas to safe and sane. Join Our Live 40 Plus Gay Men, Gay Talk Chats The third Monday of…

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186: Finding Your Passion, Purpose, and A Thriving Career – John Thorpe

By Rick Clemons | Aug 19, 2022 |

One of the most common things men tell me in our coaching sessions is, “I’m just not happy. I have no purpose. I’ve lost my passion in my career.” I get it, it’s tough. So let’s change all that or at least start that journey. John Thorpe, real estate broker and expert, found his passion…

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185: Lessons Learned After Another Trip Around The Sun – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | Aug 12, 2022 |

It WAS my birthday, and it WAS great. That’s why today, I want to share 10 things with you gay-man-to-gay-man, that I feel are some of the greatest lessons I’ve learned from my 59 years on this planet. They’ve changed my life, made me a better man, and continue to kick my ass when I…

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Buck Angel

Transgender Activist

Rick asked me to be on his podcast. I listened to some before I made the commitment. He is such the kind of person I surround myself with. These podcasts are very important for so many reasons but the most is that they will teach you about humanity.


Jess Pettit

Author of Good Enough Now

Rick provides a space for real conversation, connection, and a sense of calm that allows for relationships and change to develop and take hold towards something better together.

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Grant Baldwin

Founder, TheSpeakerLab.com

Rick is a giant teddy bear. He may look rough and tough, but he’s extremely compassionate, genuine and has a huge desire to help people make bold moves in their lives.

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