Who you love, how you love, and how you create your relationships is nobody’s business. Got it? Ok, I know. Easier said than done. Yet, it seems in this day and age there is still an overwhelming societal desire to be up in everyone’s busyness…yes I said busyness…because when you get into someone else’s relationship business you’re just being too busy and need to get on with your own stuff and quit worrying about how others do their relationships.
So now that I’m stepping off my soap box, let’s bring one beautiful, insightful, and tell it like it is polyamorous and sex-positive speaker, Kitty Chambliss, into the Coming Out Lounge to share what it’s like to live a life of Loving Without Boundaries in a healthy manner that shows the world, it’s really none of their business how you do it, but if you’re going to do it, here’s some damn good advice.
- Polyamory is simple when it comes down to it….
- Lots have heard about it, but many still don’t know what polyamory is about
- Whatever emotion is triggering us is because 1 of our 6 needs isn’t being met
- These relationships aren’t just about sex; but also emotional intimacy
- It’s a freedom of choice instead of this box that we try to out people in
Connect with Kitty Chambliss
Kitty Chambliss is a polyamorous and sex-positive speaker, author, educator, relationship coach, activist and founder of Loving Without Boundaries (LWB). Since 2012 LWB has over 200 blog posts and 55 podcasts to date. Kitty’s work has been featured in Stories From the Polycule, PostModern Woman, the YoushareProject, the upcoming book Coming Out Poly, and other publications around the globe. She has also been a special guest panelist and speaker on radio shows, international and national conferences and more. She is also a dual-certified relationship coach having graduated from The Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (IPEC). Kitty has made it her life’s mission to make thriving relationships – even unconventional ones – attainable to everyone.
Within two years of authoring her blog, Kitty’s work received the Bad Girl Bloggers Award and now has 3,800+ followers. Within the first three weeks of production, her LWB podcast reached the status of New & Noteworthy on iTunes under the categories of Sexuality and Health. She enjoys interviewing world-renowned authors, speakers, educators, therapists and authorities in the fields of ethical non-monogamy, relationships, and even a “coming out coach.”
Kitty has worked with many clients privately over the past three years helping everyone (from singles to triads and beyond) have more deeply fulfilling love lives.
When she’s not coaching clients, writing a blog post, or capturing a podcast interview, Kitty loves to pretend she’s awesome at pole fitness dancing, being a rock star musician, immerse herself in new cultures, and savour inspiring conversations over a great glass of wine with loved ones.