| THE RECKONING |
You're not the only one pretending.
This is where it stops.
You've had the wake-up call. More than one.
You know what needs to change.
- The promotion you keep telling yourself you're not ready for.
- The dating pattern that keeps repeating, or the relationship that's gone flat.
- The job that's been draining you for years, maybe more years than you'll admit.
- The purpose you keep chasing without ever asking what you actually want.
- The truth about your sexuality you're still negotiating with yourself.
- The health decision you've been postponing because looking at it feels worse than ignoring it.
You've known for a while. What you haven't had is a room full of gay men over 40 who are standing in the exact same place, willing to say it out loud, do the work, and hold each other to it.
that's the reckoning
It's not a support group where everyone nods and nothing changes.
It's a truth telling, time-bound experience where you name the negotiation you've been running and make the decision to end it.
No therapy, venting, pretending, or settling.
It's...
Momentum, not processing.
Clarity, not noise.
Action, not endless insight.
The work with Rick is confronting but with a big daddy bear hug filled with love and power. You will be seen. You will be heard. You will be held accountable. And you will not be left out there alone.
How it works
Two 90-minute live Zoom sessions per theme, two weeks apart.
Session one names the negotiation.
Session two makes the decision.
Small group. 6 to 10 gay men over 40.
Small enough that nobody disappears.
Large enough that you stop thinking you're the only one carrying this.
Each theme runs as a standalone experience.
Enter at the theme that's most alive for you right now.
You don't need to start at the beginning.
You need to start where it hurts.
SIX RECKONINGS. ONE ROOM.
Each one launches when the time is right. Start where it hurts.
what you walk away with
One thing you actually did.
Not a decision on paper. An action, completed, before Session 2. The promotion asked for. The message finally sent. The appointment made. Proof, not intention.
A decision named and stated out loud.
In front of other gay men over 40 who did the same thing. That accountability is not incidental. It's the whole point.
A framework you keep.
Not a feeling. A repeatable tool you apply to the next negotiation you're running, in any area of your life.
Homework between sessions.
The work doesn't stop when the Zoom ends. What you do in the two weeks between sessions is where the real shift happens.
→ your investment in you $149
The Reckoning Is Forming Now.
Confidence is where it starts.
August 12th and August 26th
5:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 pm Eastern
More reckonings are forming.
Check back soon.