Let's not pretend.
You've built a life that works.
Bills paid. People think you're solid.
From the outside, nothing's wrong.
But something is.
That relationship — if there is one — hasn't grown in years.
That career looks great on LinkedIn. Feels like slow internal constipation you've learned to live with.
And that “best version of you”? Maintained. Managed.
Lightly sedated by distraction, porn, wine, work, validation — pick your flavor.
This isn't confusion. It's avoidance.
You're afraid to renegotiate your life — with yourself. Because that means admitting you've outgrown something. So you postpone. Not because you don't see it. Because it's more comfortable to complain about it than decide.
So there you sit. Telling yourself you're fine. Lowering the bar because at least it's something. Staying busy so you don't have to choose.
What a drag. And not even the fun kind.
This isn't about fixing you.
You're not broken.
It's about deciding you're done tolerating.
Done negotiating.
Done managing a life that needs resuscitation.
that decision changes everything.
or nothing at all!
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40+ Gay Men. Gay Talk.
We say the quite parts out loud!
Each week, host Rick Clemons, dives in with raw, real talk about gay men's man junk.
Dating. Sex. Relationships — When chemistry isn't the problem…you are.
Aging. — When abs and ass stop doing the heavy lifting.
Money. Work. Success. — Still not feeling like the man you thought you'd become.
Grief you buried. Shame you joke about. Addictions you minimize.
Reinventions you never start.
And the ways you keep jerking yourself off instead of stepping up.
It’s — No fluff. No therapy. No pretending.
Real conversations for gay men who are done negotiating, and ready to see what they can't unsee.
Conversations
We move the podcast into real conversation.
Gay guy, to gay guy. Going deeper about the stuff we need to be talking about. Online and in person.
Relationships. Careers. Confidence. Aging. Purpose. Sex.
We venture where every gay man should, but doesn't!
Monthly Gay Men's Chat's hold nothing back, but we're respectful, inclusive, and a safe place to be seen and heard!
The Reckoning
Mens Group Coaching - Coming Soon
A cohort-based program for men who are done negotiating, pretending, and settling.
Not therapy. Not venting. Not hand-holding.
Momentum over processing. Clarity over noise. Action over endless insight.
The focus: Career. Relationships — dating them and keeping them. Finances. Sex and intimacy. Aging and health. Confidence and self-worth. Every cohort writes its own story.
You cross the line. You make the decision. You move.
Coaching
From coming out to creating and living your best gay life, when something's off, we expose it and stop negotiating.
- Bored in your relationship? Own it.
- Sex feels mechanical? Stop pretending.
- Work drains you? Call it what it is.
- Tired of closet dwelling? Step into your truth.
No more hiding, fears, excuses, or apologies. Live like you mean it!
→ This is for the guy who's ready for clarity without bullshit, decisions that stick, and a life that fits now.
No therapy, motivational fluff, or talk in circles.
Make your move. Or keep explaining why you haven't.
Jeffrey H.
I will keep this short and sweet.
Hire Rick, I did.I needed a game plan on achieving a life long goal that I was procrastinating on endlessly.
Rick helped me to work through the procrastination and achieve the goal.
So happy to have worked with Rick,
and you will too!
Garett K.
I started working with Rick to get some clarity on relationships and what I wanted from life. When I started, I felt like I was living life on repeat, and not in a good way.
Working with Rick, I was able to talk through what was holding me back, but more importantly begin to confidently take steps forward that were aligned with my desires.
Within a year I had moved to a new city, was meeting and making new friends, and dating again.
Luis G.
He has a powerful way of calling you forward while still holding space with compassion.
I was navigating a major career transition, and supporting my husband through his diabetes journey.
Rick didn’t just “coach” me — he challenged me, stretched me, and helped me rise into a stronger version of myself.