No more 3am wake-up calls asking "is this it?"
You wake up ready to kick ass.
Work lights you up instead of draining your soul.
Your relationship is real not just a safe bet.
You fit into the world on your terms not everyone else's.
Gay your way. Relaxed in your own skin.
Confident in who you actually are.
No more playing the solid, successful, got your sh*t together guy according to everyone else.
That nagging bitchy voice that keept saying something is off. Gone.
You heard what it said.
Ignored it for way too long.
Your reckoning has arrived.
One decision.
That's all that's standing between you and a life that actually fits.
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40+ Gay Men. Gay Talk.
We say the quite parts out loud!
Each week, host we dive into the raw, real talk about gay men's stuff.
Sex, relationships, careers, aging - you know the usual crap.
And the ways you keep jerking yourself off instead of stepping up.
No fluff. No therapy. No BS.
Real conversations for gay men who are done negotiating, and ready to see what they can't unsee.
Conversations
We move the podcast into real conversation.
Gay guy, to gay guy. Going deeper about the stuff we need to be talking about. Online and in person.
Relationships. Careers. Confidence. Aging. Purpose. Sex.
We venture where every gay man should, but doesn't!
Monthly Gay Men's Chat's hold nothing back, but we're respectful, inclusive, and a safe place to be seen and heard!
Coaching
From coming out to creating and living your best gay life, when something's off, we expose it and stop negotiating.
- Bored in your relationship? Own it.
- Sex feels mechanical? Stop pretending.
- Work drains you? Call it what it is.
- Tired of closet dwelling? Step into your truth.
No more hiding, fears, excuses, or apologies. Live like you mean it! No therapy, motivational fluff, or talk in circles.
→ This is for the guy who's ready for clarity without bullshit, decisions that stick, and a life that fits now.
Make your move. Or keep explaining why you haven't.
Jeffrey H.
I will keep this short and sweet.
Hire Rick, I did.I needed a game plan on achieving a life long goal that I was procrastinating on endlessly.
Rick helped me to work through the procrastination and achieve the goal.
So happy to have worked with Rick,
and you will too!
Garett K.
I started working with Rick to get some clarity on relationships and what I wanted from life. When I started, I felt like I was living life on repeat, and not in a good way.
Working with Rick, I was able to talk through what was holding me back, but more importantly begin to confidently take steps forward that were aligned with my desires.
Within a year I had moved to a new city, was meeting and making new friends, and dating again.
Luis G.
He has a powerful way of calling you forward while still holding space with compassion.
I was navigating a major career transition, and supporting my husband through his diabetes journey.
Rick didn’t just “coach” me — he challenged me, stretched me, and helped me rise into a stronger version of myself.