No more 3am wake-up calls asking "is this it?"
You wake up ready to kick ass.
Work lights you up instead of draining your soul.
Your relationship is real not just a safe bet.
You fit into the world on your terms not everyone else's.
Gay your way. Relaxed in your own skin.
Confident in who you actually are.
No more playing the solid, successful, got your sh*t together guy according to everyone else.
That nagging bitchy voice that keept saying something is off. Gone.
You heard what it said.
Ignored it for way too long.
Your reckoning has arrived.
One decision.
That's all that's standing between you and a life that actually fits.
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40+ Gay Men. Gay Talk.
We say the quite parts out loud!
Each week, host we dive into the raw, real talk about gay men's stuff.
Sex, relationships, careers, aging - you know the usual crap.
And the ways you keep jerking yourself off instead of stepping up.
No fluff. No therapy. No BS.
Real conversations for gay men who are done negotiating, and ready to see what they can't unsee.
Chats
Real talk, gay man to gay man. No filter, no faking it - EVER!
Relationships. Careers. Confidence. Aging. Purpose. Sex. All the stuff you've spent years dodging, dressing up, or flat-out lying about - to yourself and other guys.
This is the room where that stops. You show up or keep pretending. Your call.
Monthly Gay Men's Chat. We say the shit out loud that everyone else tiptoes around.
Bold Move Live
Once a month. One hour. Free. Live.
Straight into what's rattling around in your head, the whining, the excuses, the same tired story you keep telling yourself.
Not a workshop. Not group therapy. A room of gay men in your exact same spot, done thinking about it. Ready to do it.
You show up. Might squirm a little. You leave fired up. Ready to kick ass. Make that move. No turning back.
Coaching
Settling is no longer working.
We go get what you crave, not what feels fine.
A relationship that still surprises you. One that makes you tingle. Sex you talk about like a gay teenager who just discovered it. Work that gives you a Monday morning hard-on. Friendships you don't have to perform for.
You know which one's yours.
No fears. No excuses. No apologies.
One decision.
That's all that's standing between you and what you actually crave.
Jeffrey H.
I will keep this short and sweet.
Hire Rick, I did.I needed a game plan on achieving a life long goal that I was procrastinating on endlessly.
Rick helped me to work through the procrastination and achieve the goal.
So happy to have worked with Rick,
and you will too!
Garett K.
I started working with Rick to get some clarity on relationships and what I wanted from life. When I started, I felt like I was living life on repeat, and not in a good way.
Working with Rick, I was able to talk through what was holding me back, but more importantly begin to confidently take steps forward that were aligned with my desires.
Within a year I had moved to a new city, was meeting and making new friends, and dating again.
Luis G.
He has a powerful way of calling you forward while still holding space with compassion.
I was navigating a major career transition, and supporting my husband through his diabetes journey.
Rick didn’t just “coach” me — he challenged me, stretched me, and helped me rise into a stronger version of myself.