You're not confused. You're stalling.
Choose.

You're a gay man. Over 40. Maybe creeping toward 50 or 60.

You already blew up your life more than once because pretending wasn't worth it anymore.

So why are you still negotiating?

You don't need more insight. You need to decide.

You already know what's off.

  • You feel it when you wake up.
  • You feel it when the house is quiet.
  • You feel it when someone asks, "How's everything going?" and you say, "Good."

This isn't confusion. It's delay.
You've been negotiating with something that needs a decision.

This is where that stops.

You're at a stage in life where the scene is tired and you're ready for more.

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WHAT YOU'RE PROBABLY DOING RIGHT NOW!

Calling it patience.
Calling it strategy.
Calling it "waiting until it's clearer!"

What you're actually doing is trying to avoid the fallout of a real move. Because real moves change things. 

And, you've gotten very good at managing comfort.

Until it starts suffocating you. 

This work is for the moment when managing becomes unbearable.

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iT'S UNBEARABLE. IT'S SUFFOCATING.
YOU KNOW IT. WE GO THERE.

Confidence & Identity

Let's Get You:
  • De-stressed and into a peaceful state of mind
  • Making self-care and healthy living a high priority
  • Embracing aging without regrets

Love & Relationships

  • You've settled. You know it. Time to stop.
  • Sex, intimacy, desire: dead or dying, we go there.
  • The relationship you desire. Stop running from it.

Direction & Purpose

  • Waiting for clarity that never comes. Stop it.
  • You know what lights you up. Own it.
  • Someone else's life. Lived by you. Not anymore.

Career & Money

  • Success on paper. Empty inside. Close the gap.
  • Money in the bank. Never enough. Explore it.
  • The career that fit then. Not anymore. Fix it.

Coming Out & Starting Over

  • You've settled. You know it. Time to stop.
  • Sex, intimacy, desire: dead or dying, we go there.
  • The relationship you desire. Stop running from it.

Health & Aging

Let's Get You:
  • De-stressed and into a peaceful state of mind
  • Making self-care and healthy living a high priority
  • Embracing aging without regrets

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What this actually is.

This is private, direct work for gay men over 40 who are done managing a life that no longer fits.

Not therapy. Not motivation. Not weekly emotional maintenance.

THIS IS CONSEQUENCE.

  • We look at the stall.
  • We look at the cost.
  • We look at the truth.

Then you decide what you're no longer willing to tolerate. Not perfectly. Not fearlessly. But clearly.

That's how self-trust is built — not by thinking more. By choosing.

"Straight" Forward Coaching

I'm a certified coach and a gay guy just like you.

I was a corporate warrior who left that world to become a successful entrepreneur - which scared the crap out of me, but I did it.

I'm also a father of two and found a way to make a long-term relationship work with my guy.

I bring all this into play as your coach as we explore what you desire to confidently create your life on your terms.

My goal is to support you in kicking ass and moving from, "Crap I'm stuck in this rut of life," to "Damn, I'm badass gay/bi guy living the turns me on!"

I'm a straight-forward, no BS kind of coach that challenges you to stop jerking yourself off, cut the lip service, and get in action - no excuses, no fears, no apologies.

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Client Testimonials

When I first contacted Rick to begin coaching sessions, I was going through the greatest crisis of my entire life… I had finally come to terms with the fact that I am gay. Rick was a tremendous support for me at that time, thoughtfully walking me through the process of understanding myself and eventually coming out to my family and friends. Rick’s approach to coaching made all the difference. He never directed me to do anything. He never gave me a recipe for how to live my life. He simply asked questions that allowed me to make my own decisions and to chart my own path. It’s been two years since I began work with Rick and I have to say, my life is completely transformed. My crisis is in the past and I have reached a place where I am profoundly happy. My relationships with my family and friends are wonderful. I am at peace with myself and I feel like I have a new direction in my life. Whatever your issues: whether they be coming out, or transitioning to a new phase of life, I highly recommend Rick and his tremendous life coaching abilities.
- Brian G.
I felt like my life was on cruise control. Moving, but no real fulfilling direction. I was a little fearful about looking deep into my life to see why I was stuck, but the thought of continuing to be stuck was worse. Rick’s provided me with powerful insights and tools to rid myself of my victim mentality. I’m extremely excited that things are looking pretty damn good!
- Client.
Throughout the 18 months I have worked with Rick, I have developed a genuine, strong, overwhelming love for myself. I no longer have an inner fight going on. I am aware of my thoughts, my actions, my choices, and the energy I put into the world. Now I am a MAN, a GAY man, who can stand up and love himself regardless of who is in the room.
- Jacob M
Rick is extremely supportive, full of love and helps you tackle and overcome obstacles in an honest and straightforward fashion. Sometimes we need someone on the outside to guide us through the process and keep us on track to reach our goals. I always feel comfortable talking with Rick, and can tell he is truly listening, cares about what I am saying and wants me to succeed.
- Randy B.
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    Your Coaching Options

    Coaching Packages are offered as follows:

    4, 30-minute sessions per month for, 3 month commitment

    or

    4, 60-minute sessions per month, for 3 month commitment

    Both programs include live 1-on-1 sessions with unlimited support between sessions.

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