Monthly 40+ Gay Men’s Chat

A place to come where you can be yourself.

a Space to Talk About the Stuff we Gay Men need to Talk About

This once a month gay men's chat grew out of my podcasts Life (UN)Closeted and 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk where I realized the deep desire gay men have to have candid conversations about the things we need to be talking about.

The challenge we face, is finding a community of other like-minded gay guys to be open and vulnerable with about our lives and desires. If this is you, welcome to our non-judgmental gay men's chat.

We get together in a very safe, laid back, and welcoming environment, where nothing is off limits - relationships, sex, coming out, health, careers, passions, purpose, success, failures, aging, religion, spirituality - we cover it all.

Gay and bisexual men from all walks of life are welcome regardless of age, race, body type, or station in life. Once you enter the "zoom call" the floor is wide open for anyone to chat about anything they have going on in their lives - no excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Our arms are wide open for you to join us. Just remember this...

  • We don't throw shade, we dump our bullshit at the door, and we ensure that who you are and how you show up as a gay man is fully accepted in our group.
  • Our goal is for you to be seen, heard, understood while gaining clarity on whatever situation is going on in your life.

These chats are aimed to help you realize that as a gay or bisexual man that you are not alone on this journey.


2024 Call Schedule

July 15th, 5:00 pm (Pacific) - Topic: Getting Past Your Fears, Fears, Fears!

August 8th, 5:00 pm (Pacific) - Topic: Why Pursuit of Passion Is Bullshit

September 16th, 5:00 pm (Pacific) - Topic: Quieting Your Inner Gremlins

October 21st, 5:00 pm (Pacific) - Topic: The Art of Intimacy vs. Sex

November 11th, 5:00 pm (Pacific) - Topic: TBD

December 16th, 5:00 pm (Pacific) - Topic: TBD

Dates and times subject to change. Sign up below to receive email notifications about updates to the event schedule.