Authenticity is one of those words that can be cringe or cult worthy. For most gay men, it is something that we all struggle with as we battle the demon of “that’s not what you’re supposed to be.” Let’s end that battle and look at authenticity through the lens of how you define it, and …

What is the advantage of being queer? Andrew Gelwicks, explores  the answer to this question, through a collection of incisive, deeply personal conversations with LGBTQ+ trailblazers about how they leveraged the challenges and insights they had as relative outsiders to succeed in the worlds of business, tech, politics, Hollywood, sports and beyond. In his book, …

Dating. It’s either fun or the bane of your existence. Whatever happened to the good old days of waving a magic wand and meeting Prince Charming. LMAO. Yeah, keep dreaming men. It’s time to do the work and make those relationships happen. What better way to celebrate the 200th episode of 40 Plus: Gay Men, …

For those of us in the U.S. it is Thanksgiving eve and a wonderful reminder to be grateful. Yet, how often do you remind yourself to be grateful for being LGBTQ. Before we stuff ourselves with Thanksgiving goodies, it is time to take a little breath and give thanks for being our unique selves with …

Stop whining and start celebrating your milestones of life – age, career advancements, make-ups and breakups, losing weight, gaining weight. They are all milestones that give us the goods to move our lives forward if we use those milestones to kick ourselves in the ass for good instead of moping around like a whiny old …

You reach a point in your life where you finally realize, who you are is more important than what you think you’re supposed to be in the world. That’s when you take the stand to say, “Sorry, not sorry,” and then write an amazing song about that exact subject. Drawing upon her own talent and …

Sex, sex, sex. That’s all gay men care about. Not exactly true but even if it is, sex and sexual pleasure can get the best and worst of us as we age…or does it? Intimacy expert, Susan Bratton joins me today for a very candid, raw, sexual chat about everything sexual and how to take …

Many people fear coming out of the closet because of what might happen. However, many good things happen and a lot of stuff you don’t need any more will disappear after you come out. If you’re feeling anxious about coming out, especially as the holidays get closer, here’s 10 things you won’t need anymore after …

Aging. Wondering what do I do and where will my life lead me? It’s happening to all of us. One of the biggest questions is “When the time comes, where do I find a community that is welcoming to me as an aging, retired gay man, without the fear of having to hide back in …

Aging. It’s happening to all of us. Can’t avoid it. But how you step into your golden years and where you land for living out that final years of life, can often push many of us in the LGBTQ community back into the closet. Or does it? Loren Ostrow, the founder and developer of Out …