Whether you’re coming out of the closet or leaving a job that is sucking the life out of you, as you make that decision, your ugly little saboteurs are going to show up, you know those inner critics, to throw you off track. They don’t want you to do what you want to do most. …
128: Quit Bitching and Step Up To The Plate – Rick Clemons
We all complain. We all want more. We all wish it was easy. Check, check, check. But WTF happens when all you do is complain and never step up to the plate go get that home run you so desperately desire? You’ve got to stop the bitching and take the action. Grab your self by …
472: Liberated Living For Gay Men – Matthew Raymond
So why is it that gay men say they want love, success, happiness, but they let fear and and failure get in the way? Surprisingly it stems from a lot of internalized shame and beliefs that we are simply “not enough!” To prove that theory wrong, burned out teacher and fellow life coach Matthew Raymond …
127: Why Validation and Attention Seeking is F*CKING You Up! – Rick Clemons
Look at me. See me. Love me. Want me. Hell just notice me. This seems to be the quest for most gay men, but it’s also the quest that kicks us in the ass. Instead of posting on social media with your shirt off, or your ass half exposed, why not ask yourself this one …
471 – How To Be An Out Entrepreneur – Jacob Ratliff
There’s a crazy correlation to coming out of the closet and coming out to be an entrepreneur. As we wrap up the month of celebrating pride, let’s not forget to celebrate who you are in all aspects of life, especially in your life’s work. Jacob Ratliff, is a client attraction coach who helps LGBTQ entrepreneurs …
126: It’s Fat Loss Not Weight Loss For The Gay Man – Jack Kunkel
Give me those abs, pecs, guns to hang on and that bubble butt to salivate over. Sound like a pipe dream? Or is it more of a nightmare because you just can’t lose weight? Diet, diet, diet. Workout, workout, workout. Yet nothing works and it gets worse as you get older. Well, what if it …
470 – Raising LGTBQ Allies – Chris Tompkins
What started from his own experiences on the playground and in his familial unit, has led to those moment. A moment where sexuality and gender identity need to be viewed as sacred space for each and everyone of us and human beings. A moment where we can all be eased into a healthy sense of …
125: Infatuation or love…what is it you really feel? – Rick Clemons
You’re hot for him, or you’re hot about the thought of love with him, or both, or are you just confused? If you’re confused, welcome to finding love. No one, literally no one, simply waves their gay magic wand and finds the perfect balance of love, sex, and infatuation. It takes work, and that work …
469: Watch Out, Tranpa In The House – Buck Angel
Never one to walk away from a fight or a belief system, Buck Angel is coming out swinging this PRIDE Season letting everyone know that TRANPA is in the house. But what is TRANPA? An elder TRANSMAN who is not going to be told, ” Go sit down TRANPA and let us younger TRANSMEN take …
124: Should you be OUT at work – yes or no? – Rick Clemons
Even though there are Federal and State Guidelines and laws prohibiting discrimination at work because you are a gay man, doesn’t mean every gay guy gets a hard on and excited about being out at work. And, if you’re pushing someone to be out at work, otherwise you’re just not gay enough, then you need …