Ah. The pursuit of love. We all want it, whether it is for a lifetime or point in time. Yet, as gay men we often lose our minds and ourselves in the pursuit of love with another man and then we wonder WTF! We’re did I go wrong, why is this happening to me, blah, …
299: How to move from apathy, empathy, and Into action – Darren Calhoun
It’s a charged world these days. From politics to religion. Even in our own gay world. It seems that from the apps to even in person meetings, we throw shade at each other without exercising empathy and understanding. Yet what happens when you to take a second look? When we slow down and exercise empathy …
645: Get Out To Vote to Live Your Life (UN)Closeted – Alex Jamieson
There’s nothing more important, as a human being, than having the rights to live life on your terms – provided it doesn’t intentionally hurt someone else. From body autonomy, to loving who you love, and worshipping the way you choose to worship. Everyone deserves these rights. Yet, in the politically charged environment – not only …
298: National Coming Out Day and Get Out To Vote – Rick Clemons
It’s National Coming Out Day. A day we celebrate coming out and being our authentic self. Today is also a day that I am calling all gay men, LGBTQ+ individuals, and allies to come out and vote as if your rights depend on it – because they do. I’m passionate about supporting people coming out …
644: Living Your Life (UN)Closeted Part 14 – Embracing the Right Choice, Isn’t The Easiest One – Rick Clemons
Life is full of choices. Some easy, and some not so easy, right? Coming out, changing jobs, finding that just right soulmate. All of these decisions come with choices. Ironically, we put a lot of emphasis on making the right choice, and too often try to find the easy choice simultaneously. Yay, who doesn’t want …
297: How to release yourself into the fantasy and reality of being a sexual being – Emma Sayle
Fact: We’re all sexual beings. Fact: That doesn’t mean we all approach sex and our sexual fantasies the same way. Fact: Just because you are a gay or bisexual man, doesn’t mean how you do sex and own your sexuality has to fit into a societal expectation box. Instead, heed the calling from KK Homme …
643: Living Your Life (UN)Closeted Part 13 – How To Daily Embrace Uncertainty – Rick Clemons
Uncertainty is a part of life, and definitely it is a part of coming out. The good news is, it doesn’t have to be a part of your journey, nor a reason to keep yourself in the closet -in any aspect of life. But, how do you face these feelings of uncertainty, head on? That’s …
296: Exploring the Girth Of Your Manhood – Dr. Joel Pash
For most men, especially many gay men, the size of their penis is directly related to their confidence. Whether it be the length or girth, many gay men allow there manhood to rule their world. No judgment, just speaking the truth. If you are a guy who struggles to love your penis, in a healthy …
642: Living Your Life (UN)Closeted Part 12: Your Past Doesn’t Get A Seat at Your LGBTQ+ Present – Rick Clemons
For many LGBTQ+ individuals, our past is what kept us in the closet and is still what haunts to this day. Even though we are out of the closet, we suffer from the past dictating our present and future. Today we dismantle that invitation for our past to have a seat at our present and …
295: Jin DeLuong – The Naked Way To Connect – With or Without Sex
Gay men. They are all about sex, raunchy sex, and lust. Wait, hold that thought. Not always true. Yet, many gay men find connection in sex, raunchy sex, and lust – and that’s ok, if that is there way to show up in the world. Everyone has a right to be themselves in the world …
