204: Stroke This, Not That, And Survive – RIck Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 12/23/2022

Instead of getting caught up in your gay life that doesn’t please or serve you, go have a stroke. Actually don’t. I speak from experience in this podcast about how to stroke other things in life to bring you happiness, rather than dealing with a stroke. Just make sure what you are stroking pays off,…

188: Embracing A Holistic Approach To HIV & Monkeypox – Jill Baker

By Rick Clemons | 09/02/2022

First it was HIV and AIDS, now Monkeypox. And the LGBTQ+ community, and more specifically gay men are being called out as the source of these issues. Really? Are we truly going to do this again? Not if we take the right stands and the right health approaches to addressing these issues. Jill Baker, FNP-C…

159: Loving Yourself This Valentine’s Day – Steve Disselhorst

By Rick Clemons | 02/11/2022

Valentine’s Day is just a few days away. So let’s start crying the blues about what sucks about being a gay man and no one to love. Nah. Let’s not do that. Let’s talk about the challenges of not having someone to love but what we can do to be more in love with our…

123: Stop being commitment phobic you silly homo – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 06/04/2021

I want a man. I want a better job. I want to lose weight. I want, I want, I want. Yes, yes, yes, and yes. Gay men want a lot but for some silly reason they are commitment phobic with a capital “C” and a capital “P.” Listen up guys, “You can’t have it both…

052: Taking the walk of faith to leave your faith – Brian Gilbert

By Rick Clemons | 12/27/2019

Faith. It’s something that guides us, gives us cause to take risks, and sometimes gets in the way of us being able to be who we are meant to be. Faith in ourselves, faith in the path, faith in our destiny. Especially when you realize that in order to come out of the closet, you…

049: Accepting Our Changing Bodies – Elliott Kronenfeld

By Rick Clemons | 12/17/2019

Guys just don’t want to admit our changing bodies. We continue to try to do the stuff we did in our 20’s, 30’s and wonder why our changing bodies won’t follow us into those places any longer. We become stubborn, ignore stuff, and before we know it, our changing bodies are saying screw you. What…

048: Getting clarity in the crap of life – Mike Kim

By Rick Clemons | 12/13/2019

What happens when you wake up and realize that your marriage isn’t working, but you don’t hate each other – and there is clarity. Then you realize you need to feel security, so you move back to family – and there is clarity. And finally, you begin to realize you need to spread your wings…

042: Being Your Badass Self – Lou Bortone

By Rick Clemons | 11/22/2019

He went from introvert to being his own version of a badass. So what caused the change? He realized that being fully expressed was more important than hiding behind a shadow of pleasing everyone else, just to not attract attention. Lou Bortone, the “Godfather of Video Marketing,” joins me with a candid talk about not…

Why being a PREP whore is a good thing – Damon L. Jacobs

By Rick Clemons | 11/15/2019

He’s a WHORE, for PREP. A wonderful human offering responsible education about the use of PREP to prevent transmission of the HIV virus. He’s not afraid to talk about it, the use of it, nor to talk about why he uses it. He’s owning his sexual truth, sexual practices, and why feels freedom to be…

Stop and push the Pause Button – Darren Tipton

By Rick Clemons | 09/06/2019

You’re a guy who’s found your passion. You pursue it with a loving vengeance. You feel alive and on a roll. Then that roll leads you to realize, “If I don’t chill pill, push the pause button, and step back from life, I’m going to die!” Ever felt that way? I have and it isn’t…