Monthly 40+ Gay Men’s Chat

A place to come where you can be yourself.

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This once a month gay men's chat grew out of my podcasts Life (UN)Closeted and 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk where I realized the deep desire gay men have to have candid conversations about the things we need to be talking about.

The challenge we face, is finding a community of other like-minded gay guys to be open and vulnerable with about our lives and desires. If this is you, welcome to our non-judgmental gay men's chat.

We get together in a very safe, laid back, and welcoming environment, where nothing is off limits - relationships, sex, coming out, health, careers, passions, purpose, success, failures, aging, religion, spirituality - we cover it all.

Gay and bisexual men from all walks of life are welcome regardless of age, race, body type, or station in life. Once you enter the "zoom call" the floor is wide open for anyone to chat about anything they have going on in their lives - no excuses, no fears, no apologies.

Our arms are wide open for you to join us. Just remember this...

  • We don't throw shade, we dump our bullshit at the door, and we ensure that who you are and how you show up as a gay man is fully accepted in our group.
  • Our goal is for you to be seen, heard, understood while gaining clarity on whatever situation is going on in your life.

These chats are aimed to help you realize that as a gay or bisexual man that you are not alone on this journey.

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2025 Call Schedule

Dates and times subject to change. Sign up below to receive email notifications about updates to the event schedule.

January 20, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Silencing the Asshole in Your Head & Healing the Little You

February 17, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: What Love Takes, What It Costs, What It Gives Back

March 17, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Coming Out Without Burning Your Life Down

April  21, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD

May 19, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD

June 16, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD

July 21, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD

August 18, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD

September 15, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD

October 13, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD

November 17, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD

December 15, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD