Monthly 40+ Gay Men’s Chat
A place to come where you can be yourself.
a Space to Talk About the Stuff we Gay Men need to Talk About
This once a month gay men's chat grew out of my podcasts Life (UN)Closeted and 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk where I realized the deep desire gay men have to have candid conversations about the things we need to be talking about.
The challenge we face, is finding a community of other like-minded gay guys to be open and vulnerable with about our lives and desires. If this is you, welcome to our non-judgmental gay men's chat.
We get together in a very safe, laid back, and welcoming environment, where nothing is off limits - relationships, sex, coming out, health, careers, passions, purpose, success, failures, aging, religion, spirituality - we cover it all.
Gay and bisexual men from all walks of life are welcome regardless of age, race, body type, or station in life. Once you enter the "zoom call" the floor is wide open for anyone to chat about anything they have going on in their lives - no excuses, no fears, no apologies.
Our arms are wide open for you to join us. Just remember this...
- We don't throw shade, we dump our bullshit at the door, and we ensure that who you are and how you show up as a gay man is fully accepted in our group.
- Our goal is for you to be seen, heard, understood while gaining clarity on whatever situation is going on in your life.
These chats are aimed to help you realize that as a gay or bisexual man that you are not alone on this journey.
2025 Call Schedule
January 20th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Gay Problems - Open Discussion About Anything In Your Gay Life
January 22nd - Offered at 12:00, 2:00, 4:00, and 5:30 pm Pacific
Special Bonus Program:
Everyday Mindfulness | A Guided Journey
Special Guest Host Theresa Skaar
February 17th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Mastering Jealousy In Sex, Love, and Life - Guest Host Court Vox
March 17th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Let's Craft Our Dating Ads
April 21st, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: What To Do When You're Losing Your Sex Drive
May 19th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Coming Out Late In Life & Mixed Orientation Marriages
June 16th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: People Pleasing and Other Habits We Should Break As Gay Men
July 201st, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Coming Out Late In Life & Mixed Orientation Marriages
August 18th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Dating Right Vibes - Are you limiting yourself
September 15th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Coming Out After 30, 40, 50, 60, 70...Open Discussion
October 20th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: The In's and Out's of Gay Culture - Where do you fit in
November 17th, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Navigating The Holidays - The Good, The Bad, The Fa La La La La, La La La La La
December 22nd, 5:00 pm (Pacific)
Topic: Who Do You Desire To Be in 2026