Monthly 40 Plus: Gay Men's Chats

Safe, supportive space to talk about the stuff we gay men need to talked about!
Coming out, being out, and living life as a gay guy!

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Join The Monthly Gay Men's Online Community Chat - 3rd Monday of Each Month

This once a month gay men's chat grew out of my podcasts Life (UN)Closeted and 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk where I realized the deep desire gay men have to have candid conversations about the things we need to be talking about.


The challenge we face, is finding a community of other like-minded gay guys to be open and vulnerable with about our lives and desires. If this is you, welcome to our non-judgmental gay men's chat.


We get together in a very safe, laid back, and welcoming environment, where nothing is off limits - relationships, sex, coming out, health, careers, passions, purpose, success, failures, aging, religion, spirituality - we cover it all.


Gay and bisexual men from all walks of life are welcome regardless of age, race, body type, or station in life. Once you enter the "zoom call" the floor is wide open for anyone to chat about anything they have going on in their lives - no excuses, no fears, no apologies.


Our arms are wide open for you to join us. Just remember this...


  • We don't throw shade, we dump our bullshit at the door, and we ensure that who you are and how you show up as a gay man is fully accepted in our group


  • Our goal is for you to be seen, heard, understood while gaining clarity on whatever situation is going on in your life.


These chats are aimed to help you realize that as a gay or bisexual man that you are not alone on this journey.

Here's the details to get you on the calls...

  • We meet the third Monday of every month - 5:00 pm - 6:00 pm Pacific
  • It is a virtual video chat using Zoom video conferencing - you're welcome to listen or be on camera, your choice
  • Monthly themes include relationships, money, confidence, self-worth, etc.
  • It's an open dialogue where anyone can ask any question, contribute, or be a wallflower


Join the call by clicking this link the evening of the call:

Or use this link

Passcode: BEYOU if you are asked for one.