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Monthly 40+ Gay Men’s Chat
The conversations where you can be yourself about what matters in your gay life.
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You found me through the podcast. Good. This is what comes next.
Life (UN)Closeted and 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk taught me something. Gay men are starving for conversation and connection. Not a comment section. Not a hookup app bio. An actual conversation, with another gay man, about the stuff that actually matters.
So I built one.
Once a month, I bring gay and bisexual men together on a Zoom call to talk. No script. No therapist. No moderator with an agenda. Just men who are done pretending everything is fine, in a room I keep safe and respectful.
Here's what you need to know before you join.
You don't have to talk. You don't even have to be on camera. Some men come to listen the first few times. That's fine. Show up however you need to show up.
When you're ready to be part of it, the floor is open. Whoever you are, however you show up, you're in. Any age. Any race. Any body. Any place you're at in your life. Leave the shade at the door. Bring everything else.
Once the conversation gets going, nothing is off limits.
Relationships. Sex. Coming out. Health. Career. Passion. Purpose. Success. Failure. Aging. Religion. Spirituality. If it's real for you, it's fair game here.
My promise to you.
You'll be seen. You'll be heard. You'll stop feeling like you're the only one carrying whatever you're carrying.
Where this can lead.
Some men come once a month and that's exactly what they need. Some find a topic that hits too close to ignore and step into The Reckoning. Some are ready to go deeper, one on one, and start working with me directly.
Wherever this conversation takes you, you don't have to figure it out alone.
Thank you for organizing and hosting today's chat. I wasn't sure what to expect, but am glad I attended.
So many of the men I meet are vapid; it's nice to participate in an intellectually rich discussion with interesting men.I know you are incredibly busy and am immensely grateful for your investment of time.
PS - I enjoy listening to your podcasts during my early morning walks.-Paul
→ Join the Next Conversation | 2026 Call Schedule
January 20, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Silencing the Asshole in Your Head & Healing the Little You
February 17, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: What Love Takes, What It Costs, What It Gives Back
March 17, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Coming Out Without Burning Your Life Down - Guest Host: Mark Dembo
April 21, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Navigating Betrayal and Cheating - With Ourselves and Others
May 19, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Am I Too Gay, or Not Gay Enough?
June 16, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Let's Talk Daddy's - All of it.
July 21, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Unlocking Your Erotic Self - Guest Host: Court Vox
August 18, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: Let's talk everything Gay - Open Forum
September 15, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD
October 13, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD
November 17, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD
December 15, 5:30 - 6:30 pm Pacific / 8:30 - 9:30 pm Eastern
Topic: TBD