Advice Archives - Rick Clemons - Unapologetic Coming Out Expert

211: Two Things Getting In The Way of Getting Your Man – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 02/10/2023

There are many things that can get in the way of gay men finding their man. Not knowing where to look, settling for hook-ups, and confidence to name a few. But these two things are the most common reasons that gay men can’t find the right love with the right guy. But you’re going to…

209: Let Your Sexual Freak Flag Fly – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 01/27/2023

Great sex. Fun Sex. Sex on your terms, your way. Why is that so hard for so many gay guys to achieve? Because of shame, shame, shame about sex and asking for what you want, not only in sex, but in life. We’re breaking the shame game today and inviting you to let your sexual…

555: Coming Out and Fitting In Reset – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 01/25/2023

Coming out is a complete reset in our lives. A big reset. Yet, when we do it and we really dial into a reset of thoughts, feelings and beliefs, our journey out of the closet can become so much better. Filled with simple tools in this 8 minute power packed podcast, you will find ways…

207: Breaking the More, Better, Different Cycle For Success – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 01/13/2023

I want more. I want to be better. I need something different in my life. Ok, cool. But do you get so obsessed about that as a gay man that you never get where you are going, or get what you are trying to achieve? Well then this podcast can guide get more, better, different…

552: Coming Out With A No Excuses, No Fears Attitude – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 01/04/2023

Coming out is no easy journey, but when you have a no excuses, no fears attitude, it does get a little easier. Helping you step into a new year, with a new mindset about coming out, whatever your coming out journey may be, are some steps for getting clear and honoring yourself for doing this…

205: Declutter Your Gay Life For 2023 – RIck Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 12/30/2022

New Years is just two days away and while we could do, “Tips for making the most of your New Year,” instead let’s declutter our lives so we can have a great start for making the most of our new year. Here’s a no bullcrap way of getting the junk out of your life so…

551: Things you don’t have to tolerate as an LGBTQ+ Person in 2023 – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 12/28/2022

Life is full of challenges, many of which we feel we have to tolerate, especially as LGBTQ+ individuals. But tolerance is mostly bullshit that we create ourselves, and then we find ourselves wondering why we are always the one tolerating things. As you head into 2023, let’s explore what you don’t have to tolerate as…

204: Stroke This, Not That, And Survive – RIck Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 12/23/2022

Instead of getting caught up in your gay life that doesn’t please or serve you, go have a stroke. Actually don’t. I speak from experience in this podcast about how to stroke other things in life to bring you happiness, rather than dealing with a stroke. Just make sure what you are stroking pays off,…

202: Overcoming The “Pleaser” Within – RIck Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 12/09/2022

If I make them happy, then I will be liked. Or even better, if I do this for them then they will do something nice for me. Sound familiar? It’s call being a pleaser and as gay men, we have tried to please everyone else, hiding our true self, and then when we come out,…

199: Leverage your milestones instead of complaining – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 11/18/2022

Stop whining and start celebrating your milestones of life – age, career advancements, make-ups and breakups, losing weight, gaining weight. They are all milestones that give us the goods to move our lives forward if we use those milestones to kick ourselves in the ass for good instead of moping around like a whiny old…