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430: How to have healthy Sexual Desires – Robb Kornoelje

Happy Pride and Happy Sex. So let’s talk about sex and pride. What makes good sex? What’s a desire? Why do we shame sex? We ask these types of questions and then still wonder why the LGBTQ community can be so screwed up about sex and love. Well maybe need to admit, that as humans…

425: Coming Out Of The COVID19 Closet – Rick Clemons

Like a sneaking suspicion, or a bad Halloween nightmare, COVID19 hit the world and suddenly, we were all thrust into the closet. Isolation, fear, stress, uncertainty. If you’ve never hid in the closet, now you know what it is like. So what happens next? At some point we all hope to come out of this,…

421: 5 Steps For Dumping Guilt and Shame – Rick Clemons

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No matter what the closet is that you are living in, in your life, there will always be some ridiculous level of guilt and shame associated with coming out of that closet. Guilt and shame of causing others pain. Guilt and shame of letting yourself or others down. Guilt and shame because you aren’t playing…

063: When Opposites No Longer Attract – Michael Testa

There are those life moments when you realize, “This just isn’t working!” For some it’s when they realize, “I’m gay and I just gotta stop pretending to be straight.” For others, its “I’m killing myself trying to carry this team and I hate it.” Regardless of the situation, suddenly you realize the opposite of what…

413: Holiday Gifts You Should Give Yourself – Rick Clemons

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It’s Christmas Eve, or right in the middle of Hanukkah, but regardless of where you are or the holiday you celebrate, how about giving yourself some really good, non-materialistic holiday gifts this holiday season. The kind of gifts that truly improve your life and bring you peace. No more feeling the blues about these holiday…

412: Stepping Into the Race and Out Of The Closet – Martina Kwan

What do you do when you’ve built two successful companies, received awards for those companies, then move to Southern California, and you just do feel fulfilled? You come out of the closet at age 50, to become a championship Porsche 911 race car driver – and you don’t look back. Martina Kwan, kicked open the…

411: Making it ok to break the rules – Tanis Frame

Life is a series of rules. Or is life meant to be about breaking the rules? In reality, it’s a combination of both that require us to play with the rules and see where that takes us. As a Status Quo Disruptor, I’m all about breaking the rules…for good. I found my co-conspirator in breaking…

410: Coming out of the awkwardness closet – Vanessa VanEdwards

Now that was awkward. Or was it just your own self-imposed closet of feeling awkward? Too often that awkwardness is what keeps us in our closets. No one else will understand. I feel so weird talking about this. Other people will think I’m weird. All of these are just excuses for not realizing, we are…