156: How Do You Do Gay – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 01/21/2022 | 0

The biggest question I get asked, by guys coming out of the closet, is not how do you take a big penis, it’s how do you do gay? Ok, maybe the penis question comes up to, but today we’re exploring how you do gay, whether you’ve been out since you were a teen or just…

149: You’re Never Too Old To Say – Judge Me Not – James Merrick

By Rick Clemons | 12/03/2021 | 0

From a young age, the fear of God caused him to tremble in his boots about his secret. Then, in his 40’s he could no longer live within that secret, and he realized he had to be who he was, a gay man. Then he made national headlines by taking a stand as a gay…

480: Why You Should Come Out Regardless Of Your Age – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 09/01/2021 | 0

Whether you’re 30, 40, 50, 60, etc. , it’s never too late to come out and there are actually huge benefits to coming out and being authentically you in your sexuality. Here’s a few of the most common reasons to come out and be who you are, even when you think you are to old,…

129: How To Break Free From Your Hidden Addictions – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 07/16/2021 | 0

Sex, Drugs, Food, Video Games. We all have addictions, but we may not OPENLY admit to them. Another possibility, is we don’t seem them as addictions, because we have become so used to hiding them that we just don’t even realize they are an addiction. As gay men we’ve become victims, or numb to the…

473: Overcoming the Inner Saboteur – Yannick Picard

By Rick Clemons | 07/14/2021 | 0

Whether you’re coming out of the closet or leaving a job that is sucking the life out of you, as you make that decision, your ugly little saboteurs are going to show up, you know those inner critics, to throw you off track. They don’t want you to do what you want to do most.…

460: Three Tips For Stepping Out Of The Closet– Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 04/14/2021 | 0

Coming out of your closet is a scary proposition. It’s filled with fear, anxiety, but also filled with excitement and a future sense of peace of mind. Yet, if you do not have these three things present, you could have a rocky journey to your truth, regardless of whatever that (UN)Closeted truth might be. You…

446: Why Being You Makes You Stronger – Colton Ford

By Rick Clemons | 12/23/2020 | 0

What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. Right? From coming out the closet, to facing the triumphs and challenges of the music industry, to being know only for your short stint in the adult film industry, nothing makes you stronger than being 100% yourself. Just ask Colton Ford, musician, songwriter, and yes, former adult film…

439 – What Scares You Most About Coming Out – Trent Park

By Rick Clemons | 10/11/2020 | 0

Needed to come out before his family found out. About Trent Trent Park is out now with “Scare Me Most”, the first of his new singles and music videos that he will be releasing this summer. Written and produced by the artist in collaboration with his creative partner Bodes, the haunting Pop/hip-hop track paints love…

438: A Bisexual Perspective for National Coming Out Day – Melissa DaSilva

By Rick Clemons | 10/07/2020 | 0

The “B” in LGBTQ is often the people told to “pick a lane, just pick a lane!” Yet, more people are bisexual than would want to admit it. Thus the reason on this two eves, before National Coming Out Day we decided to explore the other side of the closet with a bisexual queer person.…

432: Managing the Uncertainty of Coming Out – Virginia A. Campbell

By Rick Clemons | 07/15/2020 | 0

Nothing in life is certain. Yet we allow the uncertainty in life to hold us hostage, especially when are are coming out of the closet. How would your fears, and worries be different if you didn’t allow uncertainty to drive your decisions. Virginia A. Campbell, M.D. talks about her book Are you sure? The Unconscious…