160: Do we really have to play sexual roles? – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 02/18/2022 | 0

Roles, roles, roles. Everyone wants us to play some role so that it makes it easier to relate to them. We all do it, and don’t say you don’t. Yet, as gay men, we feel like we have to fit into some constrained role to make our gay lives work…or do we. We’re rolling out…

159: Loving Yourself This Valentine’s Day – Steve Disselhorst

By Rick Clemons | 02/11/2022 | 0

Valentine’s Day is just a few days away. So let’s start crying the blues about what sucks about being a gay man and no one to love. Nah. Let’s not do that. Let’s talk about the challenges of not having someone to love but what we can do to be more in love with our…

139: Why Open Relationships Work – Canaan

By Rick Clemons | 09/24/2021 | 0

If you don’t like gay marriage, then don’t marry someone who’s gay. If you don’t approve of abortion, then don’t have one. And, if you don’t want an open relationship, then don’t be in one, and stop throwing shade on those who do. What a couple does in their relationship is what works for them…

482: There’s No Shame In Sex – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 09/15/2021 | 0

It’s time for the “sex shame” brigade to sashay away. For to many years, those ashamed of sex, except for the purpose of procreation, have tried to shame the rest of us into submission. Well, “Buh-bye, and buh-bye, to you pent up angry sex-deprived individuals!” We’re queer and we’re here because God made us to…

119: How not to FREAK out when the sex dies – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 05/07/2021 | 0

He’s not so into sex. He must be cheating. That BJ you were so fond of, he’s no longer interested in giving it to you. He must think you are ugly. These and other thoughts run rampant in our minds when suddenly, “Sex is no longer important,” or at least not as important. Well, that…

109: What’s Right With Having An Open Relationship – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 02/26/2021 | 0

Open relationships. They seem to be the hot button trigger in gay men’s circles. You’re either all for them, completely against them, or not being honest…with yourself and your partner about how you truly feel about them. Rather than become all Judge Judy about an open relationship, why don’t you at least open up your…

105: How To Avoid Gay Death Bed – Rick Clemons

By Rick Clemons | 01/08/2021 | 0

It’s inevitable. Wait that’s not true. It likely – that sounds better – that at some point in your gay relationships the bedroom will die. No not the bed, but the SEX. It happens, and rather than avoid it like a nasty STD, step into the mess before it gets messy and out of control.…

88: Creating Radical Alignment In LIfe & Love – Alexandra Jamieson & Bob Gower

By Rick Clemons | 08/14/2020 | 0

Nothing is harder in any kind of relationship than having difficult conversations. For us guys those conversations make us feel uneasy,vulnerable, and even disempowered. Not any more. Now, you can use the radically aligned technique, to get through big conversations, decisions, and some of the toughest moments of your life – if you’re willing to…

430: How to have healthy Sexual Desires – Robb Kornoelje

By Rick Clemons | 06/24/2020 | 0

Happy Pride and Happy Sex. So let’s talk about sex and pride. What makes good sex? What’s a desire? Why do we shame sex? We ask these types of questions and then still wonder why the LGBTQ community can be so screwed up about sex and love. Well maybe need to admit, that as humans…

067: Erectile Dysfunction Doesn’t Make You Less Of A Man – Dr. Ron Gor

By Rick Clemons | 04/03/2020 | 2

Most guys fear having a broken penis. It’s our lifeline to enjoyment, pleasure, and of course peeing. But how much of our issues with sexual function and our penis issues is in our heads vs. truly with the HARDware…no pun intended? Dr. Ron Gor, DO, joins us today to talk about the hardware vs. software…